Me and max pulled these two girls saturday, lead them around a couple of bars then to the club and pulled them/got there numbers - should have gone for the lay but didn't. Lesson learned, try next time.

Anyways, we're on the dancefloor - she's dancing i'm dancing and these guys make a subtle approach her way and she moves my way a few mins later we're kissing. While we're kissing this fat nerd and his mate start dancing right behind me rubbing themselves on me. The kiss ends and i grab the fat one and get all agressive with him in a jokey way - throw my arm around his neck hard and agressivly hip bump him, he walks off. It might have been two guys or just the fat guy - he was pretty fat. So his mate either fucked off as soon as i turned around or it was just his lame ass. Having some fat ass all over you after you've just had a hb in your arms aint pleasent.

So the only way i know how to deal with this situation is to get aggressive in a 'jokey' way.

20 mins later we're kissing again on the other side of the dance floor and another loser is dancing around us showing off to his mates and fucks off after a sec.

I'm thinking they we're into the girl and she was up on me and they were just being drunken children.

What do you guys do in this situation?

By the way this shit has happened before and im sure it will happen again.

Funny enough i was dancing by myself on the dancefloor while max had a girl on a previous night and this gay guy came over, got in my face and i tried the agressive but friendly approach, mistake! He liked that shit. It only made him try harder so i just had to say 'look mate i'm straight but thanks' lol.

Any advice on how to deal with chodey dudes or just dudes in general fucking with you?

Jamm.

stop disco necking, people see u as a joke when ur kissin a girl in the middle of a club, id probly ride u as well.

if u wanna kiss her, go somewer.

Fair point.

Can't see me stopping though

this!

Smacks of being 17 years old!

Slow weekend Phil?

I dis-agree that i'd 'ride' some guy who was kissing a girl in a club - i'd notice it and maybe say 'get a room' at most - infact i don't think it would affect me in the slightest - i definitly wouldn't go over and start acting like a jackass around them - trying to provoke a reaction.

I think a more mature me will be more into chatting/flirting than snogging and that'll be me in the future. At the min tho i enjoy kissing girls in clubs - gives me one hell of a hard on, ha! And it's a bit of fun.

So i'll just have to stick to my agressive/jokey reaction. I suppose i could lead her away from the guys fucking with me, that could be another option

I'll kiss girls in clubs no problemo. In fact i'll kiss a girl anywhere.

What happened to not giving a flying fuck what other people think of u?

But what would you do if some guy/guys were messing with you while you were kissing her?

Id take the girls hand & take her elsewhere.

If they followed us or continued to be annoying assholes, id tell them to fuck off & stare them down even square up if need be, till they fuck off.

But everyone is different, as is every situation different. So it can depend on this too.