Originally Posted by Carco
hi! i recently started a relationship with a girl.
Curently i use condom but would like to get rid. we all know that it kinda sucks!
i would like her to prove me that shes healthy but dont know how.
can someone teach me how?
what kind of checks should i require her to do?
Straight up ask her..."are you a hoe?"
If she hesitates she fails....and you know she has something.
Or better yet, send her to a GUM clinic. Say you really like here and want to increase the level of intimacy, but you want both of you to be totally open and honest with each other. Have a truthful talk about safe sex, then suggest going to an NHS GUM clinic for testing (I think its usually free).