I'm from Loughborough, pretty easy to get to Derby. I am also new to the whole
pua thing, not really had a problem pulling but this is a whole other level. I know what you mean about there being so much information lol. I think the best way is to learn something then use it and when you know it well enough add to it, like building a house from lego. Plus I think talking it through with another person and pooling the information is a great idea