Hi,

I'm new here, and looking for a wing near Croydon or alternatively within reach of Central London. I'm married, but we have an open relationship. It does on the other hand mean I'm not really in a situation to go out lots of times a week - normally it ends up being one or twice.

I quite like going out alone, but I'm nevertheless looking for someone relatively inexperienced at pickup like myself to meet up with now and again to help eachother overcome sticking points.. In my case my AA - I'm ok, if still a rookie, once I've forced myself (or had my ass kicked) into set.

(if any experienced guys are up for meeting up and go out I'd be happy for that too, but you'd probably be frustrated by my current level, unless you're willing to do it for a few drinks )

Someone local (I live near East Croydon) would be ideal, but I'm happy to go in to Central London now and again as well.

I've been reading up on pua material over the last year and a half, and had some modest success, and are seeing significant improvements. Planning to take a bootcamp or something soon, but I first want to take a few step further before I shell out lots of money.

When I say "modest success" I mean from cold approaches. If I've had some pre-existing contact with a girl I have no problem pulling, and so in the past I've had a lot of lays from online dating etc. But it's not satisfying me, both because of quality, but also because when I do see success in a club/bar it's much more satisfying...

I've had some fantastic nights at clubs where I've just walked around and molested and made out with random hotties as if it's what I do for a living, and I've had pulls from clubs, but they're the rare exception - I want to make those nights the rule rather than the exception. I've seen what I *can* do, but I'm having problems replicating it.

I'm 34, look younger, and generally go for the 18-25 year olds. Yeah, bad me... Your age doesn't matter.

Hay mate always good to hear from a London boy, check out my wingman thread further down this section and pm me.

Hey DM,

Am 33, look younger (girls say 27ish) and live in Coulsdon so Croydon is just down the road.

Just starting out (see my intro for more details).

pm me.