have just been on a day two, clunky as fucj on my part. met in a bar after txting. kissed wen we met so attraction felt on both sides. escalated awkwardly with touching to kiss. left her sat alone for a while by accident. she said it doesnt have to be smooth moves but i felt that it should hav been. bought th drinks on the first round like a shy chode but luckily she is proindependance and buys next ones. lots of get to kno u chat. her identity is vry local and I am from diffrnt area. kissing and dancing, I hav boner, not sure if inappropriate. probabl fine but its like evry time we hug I have it. fail to escalate past kissing. she says she has to go home, work tomo. she says 'going away for weekend with mates, dont worry, nothing will happen' I'm indifferent. she seems happy, I feel a sense of unease like something went really wrong. maybe just cos no sex. will see her again, nice girl. UNEASE

Jesus. Tha ws hrd 2 rd.

drunk Lol. it went alright, anyway, i'll see her again and continue learning from it. didnt go like i thought it would. she was holding back and trying to lead more than i expected. may be the difference of being more 28 vs younger. realised kino is not the only key to snl. u can be kissing and touching and she can still go 'ok i have to go home now bye'. feel like if i came across as attractive enough that would not hav happened.

Its a learning process Max. After a couple of dates like theses ull get to the point where ull feel really confident, generally unstifled and dating will just become second nature.

reading around the topic and trying out new things, although painful, does help.

good luck on day three

This stinks of PUA guru sales bollocks.

more to the point, if u spend every night out with the intent of gettin laid, u probly wont, it Smells of desperation. Go out with the intent of not sleepin with anyone, even if she begs u

that works

Buying girls a drink is fine if your having fun with them, most of the time they offer to buy you one instead.

Not endin in sex can be for 1 MILLION reasons from she is on, to her mates judge her

Does any date?

Sounds like it went fine, you kissed her before the end of the date (not at the end like a pussy). Don't expect any more from a date.

Just work on that confidence and self worth.

Aye. I think you are trying to second guess too many things here. Start going with the flow more.

Totally agree with Phil. Your head is full of PUA junk. There are no hard and fast rules, and no way of predicting what girls are going to do when you act in a certain way.

Sounds like you did well mate, be happy with the night you had.

What part of your body did you use to type this message with?

I first met her in a club, we danced and talked a bit and kissed and exchanged numbers. text her immediately and she responded. all that went textbook but I dont know what MM stage we are at now...Lol. actually its like C1 or C2, I cant remem the diff. Good things were, I like her, she likes me, I moved us several times during the date and we did a variety of stuff. I'm going to see her again in a few days. cheers guys

Man, what part of "Your head is full of PUA junk." don't you get? Leave it out.

Guy meets girl. Kiss. No fuck. Fuck next time.