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ArmourOfGod · **Girl at work -** 22-02-2012, 12:00 AM

Hi guys,

I am new to all this and would like some advice on what you think I should try next?

Met this new girl at work from another department. Bumped into her at lunch a couple of times. Smiled back when I smiled at her the first time. Then asked her for coffee and seem to get on quite well. We have long coffee conversations and seem to be on same wavelength, until I found out she has a boyfriend. Had 3 coffee chats now and all seem to go pretty well. She has resisted my offer of doing lunch or dinner outside of work.

At last coffee session, decided to try the personality ring routine in Style's 'rules of the game' and she related to it. She doesn't wear any rings and I told her she's a free spirit like Hermes, the god of messenger or at least that's what I think it's meant to mean. Was watching her body language (leaning, twirling hair, etc) and all seem pretty positive.

However I only have 1 1/2 weeks left before moving company and was wondering what I could try next or I fear this is going to remain in the 'friends only' zone. All advice will be greatly appreciated.

Armour

daleinthedark · 22-02-2012, 05:28 AM

You're having coffee with her, she has a boyfriend, looks like you're already friend-zoned.

Also why would you want to consciously game somebody who is in a relationship? why not just add her on facebook then you'll get a nice post on your wall if she becomes single...

Phil · 22-02-2012, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by ArmourOfGod

Hi guys,

I am new to all this and would like some advice on what you think I should try next?

Met this new girl at work from another department. Bumped into her at lunch a couple of times. Smiled back when I smiled at her the first time. Then asked her for coffee and seem to get on quite well. We have long coffee conversations and seem to be on same wavelength, until I found out she has a boyfriend. Had 3 coffee chats now and all seem to go pretty well. She has resisted my offer of doing lunch or dinner outside of work.

At last coffee session, decided to try the personality ring routine in Style's 'rules of the game' and she related to it. She doesn't wear any rings and I told her she's a free spirit like Hermes, the god of messenger or at least that's what I think it's meant to mean. Was watching her body language (leaning, twirling hair, etc) and all seem pretty positive.

However I only have 1 1/2 weeks left before moving company and was wondering what I could try next or I fear this is going to remain in the 'friends only' zone. All advice will be greatly appreciated.

Armour

i really wanted to act a cunt here but i promised twisted id play nice.

Realise right now, that "PUA" isnt some mystical wizardry where if done right, will charm the undies from any girl. It the ability to be able to communicate with women (& i think all people not just women) so much so that they enjoy being around you & value and respect you as high as they do themselves.

even at this point there may be circumstances when u still dont get the girl coz they love their guy or are busy with some other shit! or because girls are just programmed to say NO, when in an "on the spot" situation.

girls also dont know the diff between a guy who wanna fuck them & who wanna be friends. she thinks u wanna be friends, so move on, do as suggestd above, add her on facebook, tell her if she ever gets single she is yours, then let her come to you one day. Its not all about NOW NOW NOW.

stop PLAYING A GAME, and just become cool. if you do all these techniques, stop talkin about it, i dont talk about breathing, just make all this stuff part of what u do naturally... with life and success in anything...

...its not about what you do, its about your state of mind!

ArmourOfGod · 22-02-2012, 10:06 PM

Daleinthedark & Phil,

Thanks for comments and advice taken. Facebooked and moving on now.

Cheers

dan300 · 24-02-2012, 12:31 PM

At times, phil speaks sense.

ninjaelephant · 24-02-2012, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Phil

Its not all about NOW NOW NOW.

Good point here....

Refl3x · 24-02-2012, 07:23 PM

The girl i worked with that i was fucking at work for 2 years had worked there for 5 years with me
i fancied her right from the start and i engineered flriting and chatting to her on her first day of work
she had a long term boyfriend as i had a long term girlfriend

anyway in those situations it takes a LONG time to get somthing going on
and when i look back it wasnt worth it and i wouldnt do it again

Darood · 24-02-2012, 07:55 PM

I've been there recently, I fancied her but didn't want to do anything while she was I a long term relationship. It ended and I made my move asked her out and at the last minute she got back with her bf. Now It's awkward as fuck.

Hit on women you know you don't have to see if it turns shit. There's plenty out there.

dan300 · 25-02-2012, 02:24 PM

The girl im working with is blonde & hot. We fancy each other, we were supposed to get it on about 2 years ago but it didnt happen. She has a bf but told me she aint happy & dont love him. Its only a matter of time till we are fucking. I dont feel it will be a mistake i actually think we will work better. Whether its right or wrong, we do want to fuck each other & its gunna happen.

nova · 12-03-2012, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ArmourOfGod

She doesn't wear any rings and I told her she's a free spirit like Hermes, the god of messenger or at least that's what I think it's meant to mean.

I do not like this bit at all. Get real dude. You are obviously not genuinely into this tarot palaver. Flirting doesn't need to involve tall stories or fortune telling.