cut a long story short i did everything right
got her home got in bed and i fuckin could nt get it up
i was super nerves, my first time
by far the most imbarrissing thing thats ever happened to me
i feel kuck about and cant stop thinking about it
and i am stressing for the next time


advice please i am not chuffed !

shot !!!

I feel ya man, its happened to many of us so no need to get stressed over it. I had this same issue with a girl i dated a few years ago, i couldn't wait to get her back to my gaff and neither could she.I was hard as a rock, we both stripped off, i threw her down on my bed and when it came to shaggin her, i couldn't get it up. I tried everything i could possbily think of to get hard but no luck, i became frustrated and worried that i would that this would always happen whenver i brought a girl back to my place.

A week later, i was suprised she even bothered to go home with me again. Well it was obvious she really liked me and was willing to give me another change to unlease the dragon within...

This time instead of coming on so strong i decided to take my time and instead went for foreplay until we were both aroused. Kissing and touching can easily encourage arousal in both you and the girl, esp if she is hot. If you find it hard to get it up again get her to go down on you and that should help add fuel to the rocket!

The point i'm making is don't try to rush things, i can understand when you got a girl back at your place its easy to get nervous esp if it doesn't happen often. Just relax, don't try to act like a porn star. Enjoy the moment, let her know what turns you on and take it from there.

Best of luck!

Had you drunk anything? Its definately a problem as next time you'll be more nervous. But remember, she wont think less of you, if anything it'll make her more insecure as she couldnt get you a hadron, like imagine if you couldnt get a girl wet, you'd blame yourself before you blame her unless your really experienced. It's all cool man, next time do shit to her to turn yourself on and all will be good, just dont worry, its not a big deal unless you make it one.

Yeah Jay has sound advice there.
This happened to me about 2 years ago with my ex... luckily I'm good with my fingers and just blagged that I wasn't really up for it... Whether she bought this or not who knows! Orgasm is orgasm at the end of it all!

Anyway, the next time it was all good, I just took it easy and sure enough hard as a rock I was.

Try not to think about it so much next time and just go with the flow man, you'll be fine trust!

P.S if this becomes a persistant problem try poppin' a V!

It's happened to us all at least once, right?

Ritz

yea was a prety boozed
shot!!
thats puts me in a better place !
big apretiation

peace