Sounds like you did everything right man! Good on you
2 places is generally enough, but sometimes even just one other place will do!
Stay focused is all. Its on. She wants u. Keep it chilled.
I generally allow the girl, (or a friend of hers), to do the suggesting to go back.
It depends on the girl and the situation tho. U gotta calibrate it.
Ps. Got a link 2 some of ur videos?