This is kind of covered a bit in the 'dave (sinstyle) is a legend post but I thought I'd make it into a new post.

Ok this is a bit long

Saturday the 4th July

In Subspace looking for Sampi, he wasn't in there so I was about to leave and give him a call, Dave (the man the legend) walks up to this table with 3 girls on it and starts talking to this really hot Polish girl, I sit down and start talking to her 2 friends (a German and an English girl).

I can't remember exactly how things went but I was asking them what they did (blah blah students) not the best but then I started asking stuff like what was the weirdest crush you've ever had and guessing each others ages etc which got things flowing more.

At some point there was high fives but what I like to do is say "we should do a Top Gun high five!" which is basically a normal high five but then you swing your hand underneath and do another one.

Then we brought the big guns out, yes that's right the posedown! (read about it in tips and tech). They really went for it and we ended up doing 3 in a row. Then we sat back down and I ended up playing thumb wars with the german girl and her friend. At some point the German girl said she was going back home for a few months.

Then we all went for a bit of a dance but it wasn't that great I wasn't really feeling the tunes or the mood. We left them for a while and tried calling Sampi and Jynx.

Went back and sat with them again messed about with glow sticks and at some point I kissed the German girl because I could just tell she was into me.

She had a pretty hot body an 8, had a biggish nose but I have a thing for foreign girls so I wasn't too fussed.
I remember talking to Kowalski and Rood about how if they're a 6 but then you find out they're say Spanish or French it bumps them up to a 7.
I might buy a map and cross off all the countries I've "visited".

At the end of the night I got a number but couldn't get her back to mine because of her going back with her friends.

We had a few texts back and forth in the early morning, opened with one pua one I got from somewhere "Stop it! Thinking about me and smiling so much, see I bet you're doing it now stop it!".

I texted her, she said she was packing, i didn't think she was moving so soon damn! but she then texted me asking if she could see me, result!

The Date

I told her to meet me at Trof in town, my reasoning was that it has a upstairs bit that was quieter.

Got there a few minutes late but she was even later, so i got a beer and chilled. When we met I kissed her on the cheek and give her a hug but she thought I was going to go for the lips so I knew it was deffo on!

She got a drink and I said we should go upstairs so she followed me up but upstairs was shut, damn! But I there was another floor up so I went up there and she followed.
There was another room up there that had 2 guys sat talking so I sat down and started chatting about random stuff, taking the piss, touching her leg etc.

Then the 2 guys leave, so we talk a bit more the lights get turned low! So then I went in for the kiss, she kisses back and we make out like crazy, if we were in a house our clothes would be off.

We keep stopping though because one of the staff kept going in a room nearby, I say something about being like naughty school kids and I keep going in to kiss her and pull back so she misses, this makes her grab me and kiss like crazy.

We leave and go to night and day for another drink but not as much kissing, then head to the bus station.
I should have asked her to come back to mine but I've just moved house so I wasn't sure how my flatmates would react on a Monday night I don't want to rock the boat too early on and I wasn't too fussed because I had an important meeting at work with the directors so I left it kissed her some more then hopped on the bus.

Then while on the bus I thought fuck it and texted her saying If I could come over to hers she sent a text back saying her flatmate was funny about stuff like that but she could come over to mine.
So I was just about to send one back saying yes when she sent another saying it would be better when she's back one weekend in manchester so we don't have to get up in the morning and she would "love to 'spend' some time with me" (her exact words ' ' included)

So I sent something about my new flatmates might be abit funny about random girls staying over, she said I should get them use to me having random girls over!!

Conclusion

I know I should have been more pro active about getting her back to mine but I was in 2 minds about it, I know if I was in my old flat in town she would have been straight back there but my new flatmates aren't the going out type and I want them to get comfortable having me there before I start bringing random girls back on a school night.

So next time I see her I think i'm going to be incredibly sexual and if we can't find a house, fuck it! A back alley or a bush somewhere, anywhere!

Also I don't want to have any other relationship other than a casual one so how do I go about not letting her get too into me and end up hurting her?

I don't fancy her enough and I don't want to be tied down, she's a nice enough girl but the one for me is going to have to be stunning and super cool.

I'm thinking I should just tell her i'm not looking for a serious relationship or to be tied down because I might go travelling, both of which are true.

Nice one tom!! whey hey.

keep this girl for when she comes back to manchester. Instant lay every time she does!

My europian relations was'nt so successfull with her hot polish mate... txt message reads

txt message reads; ''Hi Sinstyle Thanks for the Msg I hav'nt called you back cos I'm leaving England this sat so really dont see the point In meeting plus I'm extremelly busy with packing It was nice to meet you, take care''

Tom Why are these girl's leaving england after a night out with us?!?!?!?! lol

I wouldn't worry about it, I would love to have the confidence and opening skill you have and she was a bit mental so it was pretty hard to have a higher energy than her, maybe a bit of negging might have worked?

I think once you get kissing girls you'll be unstoppable.
I think if you are on a night out and you get a number but you haven't kissed her then it'll be harder to setup a date.
So Sinstyle I think you've nailed approaching and you can keep the conversation going thanks to your improv skills so I think you need to get kissing them ladies then you will be even more awesome

Yeh I do a bit but I think if she had been more of a hottie then I would regret it more and the texts we've been sending have been getting more and more sexual so I think it's definitely on, if I'd have lost my chance then I would be kicking myself.
It's all a learning process so when i'm next in a similar situation I think i'll handle it differently.