Last night was great. Hooked up with a HB . It's setting in now. The old me has gone and the newer, confidenter, funnier me is here to stay.

My house mate, who also knows a thing or two about being a pua and myself decided to go out on a proper sarge. Normaly I end up going out with friends to places where other friends hang out, such as our favourite clubs and bars. The night started this way but soon there was just way too many guys and only one girl in the group. She was getting way to much attention, why was she in England (She's from spain, working for some short time over here in the uk. I realise now this was just boring crap every guy was going to ask her) and in my eyes this looked like a real dim AFC night out on the town. Who honestly enjoys drinking with the kind of person who hangs out in weather spoons on a saturday night? Not me! I like style and this place is just full of chavies. Don't get me wrong I enjoy a beer and a burger every now and again but a night out in our Weather Spoons is just shocking.

So my wing and I left. We found ourselves in Vodka Revolution pretty quickly and left the rest of the group behind. Hew knew two girls and was expecting them to be with more girls, so it sounded like a good idea to try their first. We find them inside, upstairs, sitting with them is this long haired greebo kid. They were sat behind a table in a dim corner. Me and Hew discussed before hand that if we met anyone we knew and they were female, that we had to properly introduce each other to the group and visa-versa. We started talking. I can't honestly remember what we opened with, it was a very warm welcoming with a hug each so all was good in our hood. My target said she had heared about me living in the same house as Hew... I said she had a lot more to learn. As I glanced down I noticed her packet of cigarrettes out and when I eye'd them she asked if i'd join her for a cigarette outside. It was just us by ourselves and Hew with the other HB. Straight away, I couldn't help thinking this was way to easy.

I have this 'trick' that seems to work. It helps break barriers if you don't know the person that well. It creates an element of trust and it gives a reason for you both to get a lil' bit closer and physicaly touch each other. I smoke rolling tobacco and I have for quite some time. I can roll fine ofcourse but I told her that I couldn't and that I needed her to hold out her hand and let me set everything up, papers, filter, tobacco etc. This gives a nice oppertunity to get close, look her directly in the eyes etc. I probably milked it a little bit, she was probably getting quite pissed off by the 15th time i'd asked her to hold her hands out haha not really, but it certainly helped.

Outside some drunken AFC comes over. He tries to interupt our conversation and then looks at me and goes "i'm sSsssssorry, is Ssshe your girlfriend?". I could tell she didn't like him and there was no chance I was going to like him. I replied "no, i'm her brother". She was greatful the guy appologised for hitting on my "sister", probably felt a tad awkward and he left. Later she was like "So your my brother tonight then?". I replied something a long the lines of "I'm your brother who wants to do other things with you". It went down quite well suprisingly. She winked and took my hand.

After our smoke break, back upstairs in VK revolution. My house mate was still chatting up the other HB. When we sat down, I announced that "I wish this bar had a dancefloor", my target girl stood up and said "come on!" We started dancing by ourselves, it was a bit awkward at first, we got close. I knew other people were watching us which is what made it hard however if this didn't end up well with this girl at least a few other girls would have seen. We had our first kiss. It wasn't some fancy one-liner, just being forward and going with the flow worked today.

I bet your wandering how the night ended up? Quite simply put we made a great night out of an average night. Hew got split up from us, so luckily the two girls were happy to go wait at my house. It's just around the corner and there is a taxi rank a further two mins walk away haha, perfect aint it? So, me and these two girls are sitting at the kitchen table. It's 3.30am. We're all feeling quite tired. The girls didn't want to drink anymore. We went to watch a film upstairs and wait for Hew. Hew's HB fell asleep within 15 minutes. Mine was snuggled against me. We kissed for a while as you do. I then asked her "Do you want to go upstairs for a bit?", not the smoothest way of putting it, is it? She was like "Yes & No". I took her by the hand and she was more than happy to go. She was nervous. It was quite nice for a change because i'm normaly the nurvous one at this point

Whilst we were upstairs lying on the bed she kept saying stuff like "This is not like me", "You'll have to take me out again now" and (annoyingly) "I'm selfish", this didn't quite settle in at first. I told her that (here comes Mr Nice Guy) if she didn't want to have sex we didn't have to do it now. She had such a tight pussy too. She's not a virgin her friend said. I tried to undo my trousers, she said no. She let me continue to give her oral sex. This went on for quite a while, she was enjoying it, while down there, my mind couldn't help thinking about what I was going to do to get my dick wet. The worst was yet to come, after i'm done she stands up. She lifts up my t-shirt and starts kissing my stomach, i'm thinking "Great at least she's going to suck my dick". She then turns around and says "You're going to have to see me again if you want some!". I licked her pussy for like 20-30 mins and now I have to play nice guy and walk her to the taxi rank down the road because she insisted that she could not stay because of reasons back home.

In the end, it was still a bloody good night. Hew came back, woke up the sleeping girl downstairs and got her into his bed in the room next to mine. I woke up and joined a gym today... it's time to get buff people!

Kind regards,

haha, good times...apart from the blue balls situation.
perhaps you should have tried freezing her out after you tried to undo ur truousers and her saying no. she was clearly enjoying herself so doubt she wanted to stop. I've had great success with freeze outs.

ha, I wish I'd thought of that at the time to be honest.

Not bad, sounds like your building your confidence.
what was the girl like? just wondering how your setting standards. Sometimes the best thing to do is go for the most attractive girls, they are exactly the same as ugly ones just more insecure most of the time. which actually makes it easier.

i love this comment "You're going to have to see me again if you want some!". made me laugh. its easily avoidable and you just need to learn the few steps to take in the bedroom to keep her keen and needy. she needs to be the one craving for your dick, not the other way round. Nice to hear you have a wingman "hew" in action as well, that tends to help quite a bit especially at the start.

Also it sounds like there was an oppertunity for some 3s action. both of them on the sofa your wingman was off god knows where. throw down some moves, get a bit dirty! its all part of the training right take them all down !!

At the time she was a 7.5. Went on a 'date' last night. It was terrible. Her friends turned up after 30 minutes. So i got mine. The plan was to ditch her and go to a club after. She comes. I spend the whole night with other girls and everytime I see her she looks upset and starts dancing with me, we kiss some, then I walk off like a right hash bastard. The reason I say this is she really isn't my type, my initial 7.5 reaction was wrong, she's only a 6 without beer goggles.

Just to add something funny about last night.

This girl I hooked up with and went back to her house with was out. She's a bloody model. Hottest girl I ever been with. We catch each others eyes and I give her a wave. I walk over, she seems really happy to speak to me but it's so loud that we can't hear each other. I took her hand to lead her to the cig area and this other girl grabs my hand

"Excuse me! Where are you taking my girlfriend?"

She's fucking Bi (sweet!) and her girlfriend was a moody bitch to me. Ha. Just wanted to add this. Love.