Hey guys not posted on here for a while. The last time was my very 1st night gaming on my own. Since then I have met some cool guys ( and girls obviously !!!!) and just wanted to share my experiences so far. The plan for me now is to find the best places to game in Manchester. On my 1st night out with any guys who knew PU, we went Font then Revolution. Font is a great place to warm up and get talking. I have been pretty much talking to anyone in nights out and in Font opened a mixed set for the 1st time which went ok . There was one time here I was talking to a student girl who was giving me IOIs, however there was one lad lurking in the background looking scared. I asked her if she knew him and it turned out to be her BF for the past year !!! Didn’t want to be a jerk so talked to him for a bit and headed back upstairs.

I like Revolution in the locks is good ground floor music is not dead loud, thers lots of seats and lots of women. In here was the 1st time I got familiar with winging I just feel I need to get used to the timing of the whole thing. However there was one lad I was with who looked a bit like Justin Bieber. I used a lookalike opener to get us into sets. I said after the opener I had to be his bodyguard on nights out to stop women pestering him. Works quite well actually !!!

Anyway Bluu in Northern Quarter is great when its busy as the music is not loud. Best moment of the night was chatting to 3 fashion designers. I guessed they were MI5 for a laugh and later on one of them guessed my name and got it right !!!!! So I played on that for a bit. I also couldn’t believe one of them said I looked like Ronan Keating. There was another good moment also I talked to a 2 women in their late 20s and they introduced me to a couple they were with. I shake hands with the guy and he tells me he likes my confidence. Turns out they all met though internet dating told the guys that 1 just isn’t enough and the whole group burst out laughing.

Didn’t like TV21 that much, though TBH I had 2 bad moments. First I go in and talk to a group said this one is definitely the bad girl and her response was “ You said that to me in Bluu earlier !!! “ . This didn’t help by the fact a girl I failed a number close in Bluu, was watching in the background. Secondly to get over this, I went to open the hottest girl in the bar who was with her mates. I get close and see that she’s from HR at my work !!! Say what you want but I don’t shit where I eat !!!!

The next night was 5th Avenue which I thought would be better. The music is loud but I had a big improvement on my game this night. Particularly with locking in, isolating and was able to build a fair amount of kino which was something I hardly did last couple of times out. Best moment was after using a ‘Shy opener’ I like to use at the bars. The girl instantly said she had a BF. All I said is I have only just met you don’t tell me your life story and then her and her friend were still talking to me. In these situations in the past I would just walk away or apologize !!

The best night I have had was last night in Tiger Tiger which on Mondays is rammed full of women. I was able to use the boyfriend destroyer again a couple of times to good use and build more kino, and I was able to build a lot more social proof this time by talking to anyone, I pretty much had to as I lost my wings for an hour. Highlight of this night was bringing 2 gorgeous girls arm in arm back to my wing who was sat down who was also in a 2 set. Still can’t believe I did this and I felt like Hugh Hefner at the time, as everyone was checking me out, and what was even better is that 2 lads I went to school with saw me and their jaws dropped they were that surprised !!!! Thing is I just didn’t know how to handle this and it didn’t work out. It didn’t stop me doing the same thing to 2 other women though !!! But a similar thing happened.

My sticking points so far would have to be qualifying, closing for numbers and kisses. I can tell I’m building attraction now as women are messing with their hair and leaning in on me. If I qualify like for example say ‘What makes life worth living ?’. Women just say drinking or partying. This seems to just kill everything and don’t know if it is me or the woman. Going for numbers and kissing has been another stumbling block so far. Don’t know whether it is my timing or if I didn’t build enough attraction for it. So far I have tried what Mystery does, you know with the hand movements and the 1-10 scale thing. They have just pulled away ( damn that deceiving TV show as it worked awesome on there !!!). I also have a similar thing with numbers, whether I timed it right or asked in the wrong way. If any guys here have any tips or any specific tactics they use here I would really like to hear them.

Still I can’t be focusing on the downsides of my game, as in the past few weeks I feel I have come a long way and got better each night. A big thanks goes out to anyone who has been out with me and particularly to the lads at Improv, which was awesome.

I have had to cut a lot out of info as this has summarised 4 nights out. But if anyone wants to know anything else or has any feedback I’d be more than happy to hear it.

Cheers

Man. I love your enthusiasm. Let's see if it lasts after your first few lays.