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Default First weekend sarging - 05-06-2011, 08:48 PM

So my first ever weekend as a wannabe has ended. here are my observations and ideas.

The first day, was night game in clapham, with johnny b and greatlookingguy. The two biggest obstacles that i have encountered was a the lack of 'stuff' to say once i opened to the first two sets (2 set and 3 set), even though they were all responding well to me and would have happily engajed in more conversation if i didnt eject myself. But I am blaming that on the 'first night nerves'. And the second was that i seemed to do much better in a bar where the music wasn't so loud and i could engage in conversation more than in a loud night club. Also I tried the 'cube' routine twice that night and both times it worked like a treat - it was cool to see both the girl's faces lite up more and more as I went deeper into regurragetating their own words to them, lol )) So, no closes, but overall a fun night and a good learning experience.

The next time was day game that kinda turned into night game as johnny b pointed out to me. We went to the spanish festival in regent street, but as the rain started to fall - we went on a miny bar crawl. Since the first two pubs were completely empty - the first set that we opened ( and the last ) was in a third bar. this occupied us for the next hour and a half. Although i dont think that i used any 'game', rather than just engaged in conversation. both me and johnnny got a numebr close and might see the girls next time we go out.

So lessons learned: just walk up and say whatever seems natural at that time, engage in normal conversation, dont try too hard and dont think about the 'happy ending' - rather just be present fully in the moment. also if u'r a noob like me, dont try to pick up at 2/3 am in a fully packed night club where every girl is to drunk to even notice you talking to her.

This all might sound like a load of rubbish to an experienced pua, but these are my first thought about the game... Hope all the noobs like me, just go out and and give it a go.

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Default 05-06-2011, 09:17 PM

nice to see you getting involved! As for conversations, just start making small talk with everybody and you'll soon get used to it!


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Default 05-06-2011, 10:04 PM

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So my first ever weekend as a wannabe has ended. here are my observations and ideas.
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This all might sound like a load of rubbish to an experienced pua, but these are my first thought about the game... Hope all the noobs like me, just go out and and give it a go.
Nice FR mate and don't worry about what other people think, the most important part is that you were yourself, you were conveying your cool personality and girls love that.

I thought rain would ruin our day today, but as you noticed in terms of approaches it's not about quantity but quality. Sorry that I bailed on you earlier, but I had to go on the other planned date which turned out to be the worst start of a date ever: 45 min late, she was pissed and when I got there a random dude was already keeping her company with his umbrella in the rain. Managed to turn it around in the end, but only got the kiss on the cheek in the end. Oh well, at least Spanish girl txt-ed me back that we should meet next week at some party


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