So my first ever weekend as a wannabe has ended. here are my observations and ideas.
The first day, was night game in clapham, with johnny b and greatlookingguy. The two biggest obstacles that i have encountered was a the lack of 'stuff' to say once i opened to the first two sets (2 set and 3 set), even though they were all responding well to me and would have happily engajed in more conversation if i didnt eject myself. But I am blaming that on the 'first night nerves'. And the second was that i seemed to do much better in a bar where the music wasn't so loud and i could engage in conversation more than in a loud night club. Also I tried the 'cube' routine twice that night and both times it worked like a treat - it was cool to see both the girl's faces lite up more and more as I went deeper into regurragetating their own words to them, lol )) So, no closes, but overall a fun night and a good learning experience.
The next time was day game that kinda turned into night game as johnny b pointed out to me. We went to the spanish festival in regent street, but as the rain started to fall - we went on a miny bar crawl. Since the first two pubs were completely empty - the first set that we opened ( and the last ) was in a third bar. this occupied us for the next hour and a half. Although i dont think that i used any 'game', rather than just engaged in conversation. both me and johnnny got a numebr close and might see the girls next time we go out.
So lessons learned: just walk up and say whatever seems natural at that time, engage in normal conversation, dont try too hard and dont think about the 'happy ending' - rather just be present fully in the moment. also if u'r a noob like me, dont try to pick up at 2/3 am in a fully packed night club where every girl is to drunk to even notice you talking to her.
This all might sound like a load of rubbish to an experienced
pua, but these are my first thought about the game... Hope all the noobs like me, just go out and and give it a go.