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2nd daygame attempt - 10+ approaches and 1 number close -
22-04-2011, 06:42 PM
Hit the streets of central London today. As some of you know, my 1st daygame attempt was pretty much a non-event.
(http://www.puaforum.co.uk/field-repo...e-stinker.html) Really should have been switched on from the start as I travelled into London. I wasn't, reached Charing Cross, headed to Trafalgar Square and there was a play about Jesus about to start. This somewhat threw me off balance, leading to Approaches 1 and 2 being major blowouts (i.e. didn't even acknowledge my presence). On the plus side, it was 2 more than I managed the 1st time around. Stop for 5 minutes to try and pull myself together, finish my Red Bull, remove sunglasses and set off again. Approach 3 - pass a HB7 outside McDonalds in Leicester Square. Walked past her, didn't do anything, got about 30 metres on, thought 'fuck this' and jogged back towards her. Stopped in front of her and said that she was gorgeous. She gets embarrassed, beams a smile and says 'thanks', then walks on. Much better! Get to Leicester Square cinema and wait for my wing. My head is all over the place so I put on some motivational music, take deep breaths and zone out. My wing arrives (James M) and we head off to Covent Garden. Things improved from then on, it's always a good day when you lose track of the number of approaches made. The highlights: 1) Number-closing a Chinese HB7 in Covent Garden, however this may be a flake; 2) Getting involved in a 3 set outside a pub we stopped at - a HB7, her dad (!) and a family friend (also HB7). We were there for at least half an hour, with some good banter. 3) Opening an Italian HB7 on the tube which wasn't empty - brief but decent chat. Need to try that more often! WHAT I LEARNED ----------------- 1) Push the interactions further - I had several 'is this actually me doing this' moments which messed me up. With more practice I think it will become more natural; 2) There is no right time to approach - ALWAYS approach. This video was another little inspiration today: YouTube - Pickup Made Simple - Dating Advice for Men: Ozzie Bootcamp Debrief 'Keep using fear as fuel for approaching; keep challenging yourself'. That is all 'The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them' - Ted Nace     
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23-04-2011, 11:36 AM
I approached them head-on, but with no real conviction which is probably why they blanked me.
This is one that I intend to master 'The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them' - Ted Nace
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24-04-2011, 08:58 PM
Nice report Smiley!
Dude, I need try out some day game - I think it will help improve enormously so many aspects of my night game. Need to get my mind off a chick too, so I'll be killin two birds (not literally of course - not that kinda game). Let me know next time you are doin this (preferably with a bit of notice for day-game). Much love, Craigus
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30-04-2011, 09:29 AM
Likewise nice report Smiley !!!
I'm more into my Day game than night game (getting too bloody old for that) and have had some nice chats with people but no numbers as yet ! Mind you I'm not putting in as much effort as you are my friend.....so my hats off to you.....I need a kick up the arse!!! Like dear old Craigus I need to get a HB8 (and half my age) out of my mind as I'm starting to spend far to much time looking at my mobile phone 'waiting for that bitch to text back' !!!! So I'd be up some day game with you lads. All the best....and Keep up the good work ! ! ! ! Three Greens
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