seeing her again tonight at her place. she's cooking.

could do with a few pointers as to how to go about keeping her as a FB. don't want to get too heavily involved , FB will do

Good thinkin, the girl can cook. I got peeved at one the other day that said 'darlin I burn toast'. I was all 'fuckin learn somethin, you work in an italian restaurant!' No experienc o successful fb-ing but framing it is everything. If in your situ I'd attempt something like

'You're really cute, I like you. We totally shouldn't commit to eachother though, the sex is awesome, AWESOME, but I want to stay available. How else are you going to find Mr Right?' Serious but teasing and playful.

You dont need any pointers-- roll with tonight and see how things pan out.
if she asks you what you are looking for just say

I dont look for anything i just enjoy my life--- if i meet somone awesome then great if not then im good.

cheers guys

my last FB was about 9 years ago (only had 3 in my entire life and not at the same time ) and I don't remember how they came to be, they just sort of happened

gonna roll with it and just do it.
I'm def over thinking it again. stop that shit right now!

They probably just happened last time, cos you weren't thinkin about how to handle it :P

How about
you didnt give a shit about the outcome and just rolled with it

Thats how you should be ALL the time

If it's not on facebook you're not going out. until she sends you a relationship request you don't really have to say shit. you can always us the to famous lines women use all the time. "I think were moving to fast", "I just need more time to think". Point to note a women will use you just the same so keep that in mind. worst case scenario she gets pissed off and breaks it off. If you only want her as a fb then you're not that into her and can accept that.