I am just bored at my lunch time at work so I thought I write a field report. Never really like to write one but here goes. Take it what you want from it:

I had 5 dates the last 3 weeks.

1) The first date, we went out dining and drinking and clubbing in Manchester (the coolest city in Britain). We had a fab time. Everything went well. She initially declined to come back to mine but with a few more kinos and more kissing, she agreed with the caveat "as friends cos I dont sleep on the 1st date" but as soon we got to mine, it was game on. Got a text next day saying "dont see it long term, so dont think I want to see you again". Suits me right to the core. I never replied back and deleted her number. p.s. the sex was fab, honest and she did say she came at least 5 times that night! MEH!!!

2) Second date, went out during the week. I must have been pretty pissed with beer goggles on when I met her a few weeks back and she wasnt what I remembered her to be. Old and about HB5. Carried on, being polite and we went home our separate ways. Still had a good time although she knew I wasnt keen to see her again. Number deleted. PISSED!!!!

3) Third date, same like the first date, went out dining, drinking and clubbing in Manchester. Same again, loads of kinos and kissing and she ended going back to mine. Saw her again the previous weekend. Same again. Went out the week after in Sale. Stayed at mine. But got a text the next morning saying "getting a lot of hassles from the ex, gonna get my head straight but dont think I can see you again". I didnt bother texting back and deleted her number although I was gutted cos this girl was/is beautiful. GUTTED!!!

4) Fourth date, went out with a company director who spent all evening talking about work, work and work. I didnt pursue with anything cos she bore me to death. Deleted her off! ZZZZZZZZ!!!

5) Went out last night with this proper HB8 from Warrington. Had a great night, the conversation was flowing, loads of kissing etc. Didnt ask her to come back to mine cos we were gonna meet again on Friday (so I thought) and I started at work early this morning. Texted this morning, no reply when the previous few days she was texting me like mad. I wont text her again. Deleted her number. If she still wants to go out tomorrow night, she can text me although I probably wont know it's her. Maybe Im a bit too harsh, deleting and not giving her the benefits of doubts but hey, thats how Legend roll...! HMMMMM!!!!

Moral of the story.....! NONE!!!!

Correction. The moral of the story is simple:

Best way to deal with these is to blow their world apart, they get all confused.
I suck in the speel they give and then make them aware that i really dont give a shit about money and status and it doesnt lead to happiness etc.

Suddenly metaphorically you have stripped them totally naked and they are lost and then easily led.

The moral of your field report is...just keep on ploughing! they were all a learning experience, part of a statistic in your quest for awesomeness.

I like this, can well see it working. Have you applied this same rejection of their values to other non money based values with good effect? Just curious.

PS

PS
Its not a game or a ploy its the truth
I have a saying - No matter where you go there you are

A flash House and a Car wont make you Happy -- sure you get mesmerised on the path to aquiring it-- once you get there, you are still the same person you where when you started and you will still feel the same.
Thats my life lesson anyway

Well, I "got there", and yes I was still miserable, in fact the stress I piled on myself eventually fucked me and I cracked up. Taken six months to feel somewhat normal again. It was an obvious compensation for deeper personal problems, so I know full well it's not a game. I'm just saying that if a girl has a strong frame in an area that's socially OK to oppose, would opposing it have the same effect regardless of the topic?

PS

to harp back to Mystery and style --

its just a re-hash of:
Lots of Attractive people in here tonight, its really common
So tell me somthing interesting about you?

6) Went out for a meal on Wednesday last week with this girl who works as a translator for Bank of America. Met her in January when I was out shopping in Cheshire Oaks. She works in Chester but lives in Manchester. Had a great night. Loads of drinking. I thought I could take her back. 3am came, she said she had to go, flagged a taxi and just left. I was taken aback. Not sure what to think of it, Im sure it wasnt me. Texted her Thursday, only to be told that she didnt want to see me again. Deleted her number. Some woman is just plain WEIRDO!!!!

7) Went out Saturday with a girl who owns a hair salon. She is fit, the whole package. Again had a great time. Eating, drinking and dancing till 4am (5am really as clock sprung forward). Whilst we were in the club, her business partner somehow appeared as she was in town too (yeah righ!). Her business partner kept saying the girl really liked me and if I were to hurt her, she would kill me haha!! Went back to her three storey house, made the most amazing love on her poster bed. Drove me home in the afternoon in her bright yellow beetle! Not made any plans to see her yet as she is busy in the next four weeekends, suits me perfect. KEEPER!!!!

Exhausted all my contact list now...time to find new HBs!

Happens like that somtimes doesnt it,, you are left wondering what the fuck you did wrong--after going round in your head a few laps and findin no logical explanation you land on the -
'she was obviously fucking retarded conclusion'

fair play to you deleting numbers.

When I've had that text saying "sorry but I'm calling it off", I've usually pathetically clung onto their number in the lame hope they'll come to their senses and realise they want to see me again.

Anyway, I've since deleted all old date numbers and texts - onwards and upwards.

just hope I've got the balls to do it as quickly as you do next time it happens