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Friday 8th May

Weird night - I started off in Blu with Kowalski, Darood and Swype. I was then magically teleported to Jillys, where I was surrounded by zombie type fat girls. Darood ended up lost somewhere in outer Lancashire. No real sarging, it was just bizarre (thanks to Swype with those evil vodka oranges )

Saturday

Me, Mad4it, Retro, Legend and Anthony. I started the night slow, but I was opening like a bastard once we got to the northern quarter. A few strange interactions.

1) First one, I hate 2 sets!! Got chatting to this 2 set, I thought I fancied one of them but ended up fancying the other one more. I used a lot of kino-- but the other friend was being left out (wings?). Anyway handed the phone over to the girl - she put in a number - she admitted it was false - but the back of my phone fell off and the battery fell out.. damn thing...

2) We were in Trof - got chatting to this girl. We got on. I attempted to number close, she refused. I thought, maybe she will surcome to my charms later . She told me she had to go for 10 mins. She came back - grabbed my face () as if to say hi. I then led her outside the bar I said "I wanna tell you something important" When we were out she said "you're invading my personal space" I was up pretty close to her. She said "thanks for the compliments" (I never gave her any compliments ) then scurried back into the bar.
What to do?? I thought I was blown out - so didn't persue anymore. On a good note - a lot of people in that bar seemed to know me "hi mark". It's cool when people remember you, I suppose you get that when you take action.

3) Solo in TV 21, after everyone had gone home. Approached this blonde at the bar. After a 20 sec chat, she went to sit with her friends. I sat down with them after a minute. Her friend was very bitchy - said was a lesbian (I believed her because she looked like one!) She was threatening to pour a beer over me so I bailed.


I think with the girl in Trof....maybe I could have got her with slightly better calibration- so I'll keep practicing.

Over and Out

Hi Guys -

Latest updates:

Friday:
Opened loads of sets - but my memory of Fridays are awful. Had some body language issues which crept some girls out (not all, bearing in mind I opened tons of sets!) - I was "talking too close" Thanks Kowalski for pointing that out! This was so simple to solve for Saturday


Saturday:
Quite a few of us out - I'm getting more consistantly confident in opening (situational confidence). Attempted to K-close twice.
First time with a lovely French girl - did number close though.

Second time this blondy girl opened me twice. Danced and grinded really close, attempted to K close her 3 times...but missed.


Anyway, I'm adding a lot more inner game these next few weeks etc being in the moment (Ekhart Tolle) and reaching into my core confidence - just being able to not give a fuck and just do it.......I will get more callibrated. After bank hols I am going out way more often and doing day game - or fucking make time for it anyway ----------- I feel like a pimp even now!!

Hahahahaha, LOVE IT!!
Mate, every time I see you in the field, you exude confidence and is growing all the time. Wish I am at the stage where you are right now...so give yourself a pat on the back....!

The way you going, the hoe parlour will be running out of business soon haha! Nice one kidda!!

Interesting Friday 22nd May:

Today I just focused on how I'm feeling, with the goal to feel good and amuse myself....have fun. So, I opened like a motherfucker again!

Openers I used were "Do they sell beer here?", "is there a bar in this bar?" "Whats your favourite flavour of coconut?" and "have you heard of RSD, it's awesome!"....

I didn't use these openers to impress the girls, I used them to generate laughter inside me......

Anyway, we went to Walrus and one of the guys called me to say they were going to Bar 38, to cut a long story short, the bouncer "jokingly" didn't allow me back in, so I nearly got into a scrap with him, pushing shoving..etc. They allowed me back in again to extract the other guys out of Walrus, to walk to Bar 38......psychologically, I had won a fight with a bouncer (maybe delusional), but at that point it felt as good as sex..my adrenaline and testosterone was pumping, I was in a very sexworthy alpha state!

We went into Bar 38, I just kept opening...being me, totally alpha. Starting dancing with these two gorgeous brunettes. Got chatting to one...I liked her, and she clearly was into me......so I chatted and pulled back a bit naturally..she kept coming...I pulled back....she kept coming.....then BANG...K-closed....

Lasted 10 sec...the friend pulled her away...they had to go...I got a phone number off the friend...but was wrong!

Anyway...back outside...one of us opened this two set..they kept saying "come with us to Varsity", I said to the fit one, "only if you kiss me"..she gave in, 2 slight french kisses twice, then the friend hit me

All in all, a mad night......all I was concentrating on was the present moment and feeling good and sexy inside...

Yeh my only flaw of the night was logistics handling....with more experience, would have been a more solid number close and possibly pulling her back to mine...but one step at a time....

I gonna look at this night with indifference...the more sets I open, the better success I will have.

Look forward to Saturday...

Sweet man , now we're fucking talking . Getting the k closes , that's what we're all about B-) ! I look forward to seeing you in action tonyte brother

Mate you were on fire last night. The k close in bar 38 was awesome, i just turned round and saw you full on with the girl, although then seeing her mate drag her away was shit.

Retro