I had a Spanish bird around the house the other night. She told me her favourite movie was "Tie me up" with Antonio Banderas, so I pinned her down on to the bed and starting getting rough with her. She was into it but then came the
LMR. I just got up, went to the fridge, grabbed a beer and went and sat in front of my laptop. She fell asleep. As soon as she woke up I fucked her. The next day she told me not to say anything as she has a bf.
Both of the two times I'm talking about when I couldn't get past the
LMR I had them on the bed. I was making out heavily with an Austrian chick and I got her boob in my mouth and my hand up her skirt, so I'd say my intentions were pretty damn clear. The thing is, she is actually seeing a guy and lives with him.
Last night it was a Polish girl. We made out for quite a bit and then I got her back to mine, on the bed. I kissed her and pushed her down and she turned to ice and starting saying that she had to go. She was adamant about not having sex.
I really do not believe that my sticking point is a lack of assertiveness.