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Jeepster 02-12-2020 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by VibeSpreader (Post 129464)

Love seeing breakdowns of communication, have you seen any of the youtuber 'charisma on command' ? Great breakdown with Jaden/will smith in group dynamics.

No cant say I have, I will check it out, Thanks.

kowalski 02-12-2020 08:48 PM

You were referring to his studies literally. They are the source of those specific percentage splits you were quoting.


Peace,

kowalski

kowalski 02-12-2020 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 129461)
That's a misinterpretation of Mehrabian's work.

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Originally Posted by Jeepster (Post 129462)
No not really, thats it in its simplest form.

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Originally Posted by Jeepster (Post 129479)
I wasnt refereing to his studies literally

lol


Peace,

kowalski

Jeepster 02-12-2020 09:01 PM

I used his formula as an example of how communication is broken down. But I cant be fucked arguing with you.

Jeepster 02-12-2020 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 129483)
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lol


Peace,

kowalski

Fuck sake, I know what I wrote. Off you fuck now.

kowalski 02-12-2020 10:37 PM

Brilliant.


Peace,

kowalski

Jeepster 02-12-2020 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 129488)
Brilliant.


Peace,

kowalski

So they say my cavilling, scurrilous friend.

VibeSpreader 03-12-2020 12:59 AM

If either of you want to delete your unnecessary argument posts that would be lovely.

I guess it does remind me that I was best (and most enjoyed) trolling/arguing online till about 21, when my game was at its worst. Jeepster, seems like the pubs opening today didn't release enough stress for you haha.

Funny approach story hot chick on her cigarette break, tease about her overly massive scale and end up chatting for a good 10 minutes. Decided we'd like to talk more over a herbal tea (she doesn't drink) when she says...
"by the way, I'm a proper Christian"
'uhhh, elaborate on proper..?'
'church every week, pray daily, no sex before marriage and I firmly believe in hell'
'hell even for people that haven't heard of Christ...?'
'yes, because it says in the Bible to spread the word of Jesus to save them'
'oh ok, your God sounds like a massive dick, goodbye'

Pretty much walked off laughing, religion really is crazy to me sometimes gdaym.

Jeepster 03-12-2020 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by VibeSpreader (Post 129490)
If either of you want to delete your unnecessary argument posts that would be lovely.

I guess it does remind me that I was best (and most enjoyed) trolling/arguing online till about 21, when my game was at its worst. Jeepster, seems like the pubs opening today didn't release enough stress for you haha.

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What are you aiming that at me for? I was posting a lagitimate post until I was trolled and provoked. Am I not allowed to defend myself?

VibeSpreader 03-12-2020 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Jeepster (Post 129502)
What are you aiming that at me for? I was posting a lagitimate post until I was trolled and provoked. Am I not allowed to defend myself?

I believe gamers should be the most unreactive, untrollable men in the universe because of the super-powers good game bestows upon a PUA. Even by asking me if you're allowed to defend yourself you're being poked. Feel peace within, realise internet keyboard warriors cannot lower your state, simply by remembering its just words on a screen.

OOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMM

For example, you said "Lagitimate post" If I said, 'sounds like your brain was lagging when you wrote that' instead of calling me names, maybe say... 'I'll lag on your face you sexy minx'. Oi oi. Only saying all this to you because you're clearly a nice bloke and I hate seeing fellow spreaders of the vibe get pissed off over something small. Like your dick. ;)

Jeepster 03-12-2020 08:59 PM

My bad, yes defenitily brain lag there, LEgitimate, I hadnt even noticed I wrote that. Your post sounded as though you were being arsey and aiming your annoyance of the posts at me as you mentioned me being stressed. I guess I took it the wrong way.

Anyway moving on. My Dick might be small but you wouldnt want it as wart on the end of your nose.

Dr_Zed 03-12-2020 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by VibeSpreader (Post 129503)
I believe gamers should be the most unreactive, untrollable men in the universe because of the super-powers good game bestows upon a PUA.

Good advice here and I've seen this crop up a lot. I meditate daily as part of a means to control awareness, but also attempt to be aware of when my emotional state is spiralling out of control. By practising control, it sure as hell helps with dealing with the emotions of others (especially women) more, though I personally feel I'm still a long way off from that.

kowalski 05-12-2020 07:07 AM

This moment of learning was gifted to you by kowalski.

You are welcome.


Peace,

kowalski

VibeSpreader 11-12-2020 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Jeepster (Post 129504)
My bad, yes defenitily brain lag there, LEgitimate, I hadnt even noticed I wrote that. Your post sounded as though you were being arsey and aiming your annoyance of the posts at me as you mentioned me being stressed. I guess I took it the wrong way.

Anyway moving on. My Dick might be small but you wouldnt want it as wart on the end of your nose.

It's cool mate! Yeah I can't argue with that haha.

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Originally Posted by Dr_Zed (Post 129505)
Good advice here and I've seen this crop up a lot. I meditate daily as part of a means to control awareness, but also attempt to be aware of when my emotional state is spiralling out of control. By practising control, it sure as hell helps with dealing with the emotions of others (especially women) more, though I personally feel I'm still a long way off from that.

Goal level of emotional control-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKlDAhOXMQA

Dr_Zed 14-12-2020 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by VibeSpreader (Post 129603)
Goal level of emotional control-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKlDAhOXMQA

SUPERCUT - The Unflinching walk?

VibeSpreader 18-12-2020 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Dr_Zed (Post 129652)
SUPERCUT - The Unflinching walk?

As in, even explosions don't phase you.

So... a FWB decided she wants to try 3somes! But only if it doesn't work out with the guy she's dating... he's just got out a 6 year relationship and apparently seems abit burnt by it, a clear red flag. Had to hold back when giving her advice on it it from his POV, at the end of the day she know's him better than anyone else. Do actually want it to work out for her because I can tell how much she likes him (even though we're discussing this post coitus). At the same time I'd love to start 2021 off with a 3some....

VibeSpreader 22-12-2020 06:58 PM

Fun approach from gaming on Sunday with a client (M)-

We had done a few 2 sets at this point but not been able to separate the convos which was the goal for this next set. I opened 2 cute girls drinking in Hays Gallery (a sheltered part of london bridge).

At this point i was feeling loose so opened loudly and directly by getting their attention then explaining I'm role-playing- this is a bar and we're approaching them, at least partly because of their looks *cheeky smile* didn't reacting to their laughter reactions then they hooked pretty quickly.
As I asked one a question directly, M did the same which ended up in us chatting separately for a good 10 minutes before I introduced M to my girl. I had to work hard to keep her attention and mood high because tier 4 had just been announced less than an hour ago, so she was panicking about her xmas plans being cancelled but was happy for me to help get her mind off it.
Both girls were seeing someone but not exclusively- M's qualified herself specifically that she wasn't exclusive, lovely.
As the girls were leaning back against a wall it wasn't ideal body language at first but I managed to move mine to take a lean myself. Was paying more attention to M who was getting his girl to invest a lot and teasing very nicely. His was half Scottish half columbian, what a mad mix haha.
We both closed solidly, could have been a proper evening if we didn't have to finish up, great finish for M who made improvements throughout the 3.5 hour session.

VibeSpreader 19-03-2021 12:01 AM

1st post of the year
 
Daymn this year has gone quick in lockdown. I'm gaming with the least AA i've ever had and results are also better than ever, in part to nearly dying in February. Got really sick, not from covid. Better now and energy level's are insane sleeping really well and 0 caffeine needed. 8 days involuntary fasting has its upsides.

Still seeing the chick I met in Nov while she was doing Muay thai, it's great because we're both in agreement this wont work long term (she's not down for an open relationship) but it's so fun. And might have my first threesome with her where I don't actually touch the other girl, just watch her get eaten out etc. She's too jealous to let me do anything to the other girl, fine by me.

Gunna see what i've missed in this wonderful place...

VibeSpreader 25-05-2021 01:06 AM

Soooo ended it with the Muay thai girl, pretty proud of my willpower to do so- was basically holding us both back from meeting someone that would really work, and we were falling hard for each other while arguing more and more....... in the 3 weeks since i've ended it, had 4 new hot lays. Amazing what NOT spending a lot of the day VMing a chick + 2-3days hanging per week can do for your game. But sadness too... been a while since i've felt that KMT ahh.
Now coaching 4-5 DG clients per week so it's great i've got this extra time.

Going to post an approach of the week on here weekly just for motivation if anyone really reads this, i'm feeling like the views must be magically inflated.

AOTW
Was cycling (no, i'm not the real FirstPersonAprroacher, honestly) before talking to anyone yet that day. See a mixed race girl maybe 20m away, HB10, smoking outside a coffee shop. Hard stop with a cheeky smile, no opener in my head.

Excuse me, so um.. you're going to call bullshit on what i'm about to tell you.

-she half laughs- what?

Basically I got this lazer eye surgery, and I'm literally only saying hello to you because of it... So i'm gassed I got this surgery- I could see your green eyes from a mile away... I feel like it was worth the money now.

-she calls bullshit, banter back and forth, inform her that i've got 30/20 vision now and prove it, find out about her abit, number close even when her manager came out because she doesn't give a fuck about her job. Also caught her looking at my leg gains (thank you cycle shorts) and teased her pretty hard.

Date 2 days later, massively fun night out, back to mine OI OI. I don't always go into big details on sex but hey... anyone ever found it weird how randomly differently tight a chicks pussy can be? This girl was 5 foot 1, 51kgs and 3 fingers barely touched the side ://// Still great chemistry.

VibeSpreader 20-06-2021 02:51 PM

Smoothest new lay
 
Had one of my best approaches/new lays recently. I've been recording audio for daygame podcast that was going really well until I had a date drop my phone in the Thames and lost 25 files not backed-up. You live and learn eh- double motivated to get more content now.

This one was an approach demo for a new client who had just done a set that had a total of 8 questions, while expanding on none of her answers. So he called me and listened into me approach where I made only statements and it got her volunteering info about her and qualifying.

This girl was walking with strong posture and speeding down Brick Lane like she needed to avoid PUAs at all costs. I find out later she's "never given out her number"

*fake exhaustion running to catch up to her*
'Hey you there in a rush, I nearly just got run-over to try and chat you up- give me a sec to catch my breath'
(heavy eye contact)
'really!? ?' (she said at this point she was like ' here we go again')
'Yeah i saw your ridiculously good posture and had to side flip over that car to say hi, i've had one of these amazing days that charge you with energy'

after a back and forth, she told me she was a scientist, loved that I read the new scientist on a weekly basis and laughed when I gassed her for studying aging 'OOOO BAYBE you trying to elongate some Telomeres out here yeahhh that's hot'
Apparently I pronounced it wrong but that was closed the deal on getting her number. Was double happy because she also does pole so body is a 10. 2 days later she messages me it's her birthday at 10.30pm and she's in the Savoy Hotel by herself... after lots of 'I never do this you know' we had a crazy night of fun. /storytime.

Podcast name either going to be 'approach or die' or 'Shy2fly'.

99AcTaRuS99 04-07-2021 07:31 AM

Cool stuff man.
Are you going to see her again?

VibeSpreader 13-07-2021 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by 99AcTaRuS99 (Post 132484)
Cool stuff man.
Are you going to see her again?

Yes mate, she's looking at moving to London so just chat here and there. First ever scientist that also does pole dancing, actually got mad skillz.

Luffy 13-07-2021 06:50 PM

Hey mate, what a great field report! Really motivated me :) Have you made your podcast by any chance? Thanks

VibeSpreader 14-07-2021 02:18 PM

Thanks Luffy, glad to hear it. I've nearly ready to post the first one, took a while to get good with audacity to edit out background noise of infields and really plan clear direction for the pod. Got a simple logo nearly done too.

Funny approach from last week that I didn't record- was out in Piccadilly circus and saw a hot short haired girl lighting a cigaret so I sat down next to her. Went indirect with a routine about being an ex smoker but made heavy eye contact and gave her a compliment as I shook her hand- kissed it and managed to get her to kiss mine back haha.

Turns out she's from the other side of London- Croyden and would have been great to have the rest of the night with her however I was meeting my main FWB, so after getting her number I decided to go risky one- probably never see her again anyway right?

(text) 'good, i met my ladyfriend ___, bit random but i'm sure she'd like you- if you fancy us 3 meeting for a drink in a bit...' Looking back I hsould have said 'you'd like her'
sent a pic

"that's good, had a Chinese and on my way home have a good night tho"
So it failed and she later said I was a bit presumptuous asking her for that... somehow i've brought it back saying 'lets go full tabula rasa and pretend it was never sent that'. And i'm meeting her tomorrow anyways!

VibeSpreader 29-08-2021 05:43 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZnmr8fEvzg&t=3s

VibeSpreader 23-03-2022 04:41 PM

IT'S HOT OUT. Been consistently approaching daily and coaching on the weekends, finally cut off some fwbs to give myself more time for coaching, producing content and meeting new women. Have a potential for an open/3some relationship which is exciting.

Also cutting down an obsession with BJJ has free'd up more time for making more ££. Doing 5-6 two hour sessions per week + 1-1s helped me to get a gold in a whitebelt competition after just a few months but it's not worth carrying on with that level of commitment.

Goal is one 1 podcast per month march-October, motivations is HIGH.

dan300 23-03-2022 08:49 PM

Well done on winning the karate thing

What are your podcasts about?

VibeSpreader 24-03-2022 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by dan300 (Post 138457)
Well done on winning the karate thing

What are your podcasts about?

Cheers, BJJ is like karate but more based on submitting the other person. The podcasts are to help people improve their game, there's a link a couple posts ^^ to the most recent.

VibeSpreader 22-05-2022 08:30 PM

Wassssup. Here's my 3rd episode of a gaming podcast, 'approach or die'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=igGAZZH_hiU

4 recordings of fun openers. Any feedback welcome.

VibeSpreader 02-06-2022 03:50 PM

2 first date hottie bangs from daygame closes in the last 5 days, enjoying getting back into regular dates again rather that a big rotation. First was a tattoo'd columbian who was slightly startled when I approached her and couldn't speak much english (nearly didn't bother getting the no.) but was surpassingly receptive on texts and we used a fair bit of google translate on the date. No alcohol just a herbal tea, table tennis and back to mine. Taught me some salsa and I played some guitar, then a lot of fun. Can be like that sometimes!

Second was an approach with my younger bro aka the prodigy haha. He pointed her out so that was a part of my opener. Lawyer in Liverpool st. 2 venues, 1 cocktail in each then back to mine, classic 'i'm an angel' and refusing a kiss even while being really receptive with my arm around her, her hand on my leg. Ended up asking to stay over 'but no monkey business' and shockingly (jk) we didn't sleep till 4am, not ideal but worth it.

Out all this weekend, dm me for a coaching session or to wing if you've got mad skillz/vibes.

femalesuducer 05-06-2022 08:46 PM

Interesting podcast, if I had a YouTube, I'd subscribe!

VibeSpreader 14-06-2022 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by femalesuducer (Post 139587)
Interesting podcast, if I had a YouTube, I'd subscribe!

Thanks! I think if you have a gmail account it's valid for youtube because they're connected now adays. So I've been on abit of a DG 'rampage', total 4 lays in 11 day, 3 on the first date. Would have continued into NG on the weekend but moved house and was pretty dead. Met one girl on the tube and got off same stop, got her attention chatting to some guys who had the same portable speaker as me and cracking some jokes. My opener to her was 'would you like some chewing gum, strawberry flavour is very underrated' haha.


Not sure if it's 'law of attraction' but met a couple girls in open relationships recently. The one from the tube was in her first one so shared tips and my experiences, apparently i'm very similar to her BF... Next podcast will be up this weekend, looking to do videos moving forward too watch this empty empty space haha...

VibeSpreader 06-07-2022 02:44 PM

Here an episode I rushed in one evening, any feedback would be appreciated!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sx4sHgv3n_Y

Jefferycem 10-02-2024 12:08 PM

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I can see where having different coaches would be bad because you have different training philosophies and other training problems. But, if both coaches are good and know what they are doing, this could be a very good thing. They would know more because they have 2 coaches to get advice and help them.... It could go either way


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