Well the other night I got a booty call from a girl I've been seeing over the last 2 weeks, we've fooled around before and I know she gets really horny.

Anyway she calls me up on Thursday evening at 6pm and says "Hey do you fancy coming around for dinner and a movie?". So I say "Sure, I'll be over at 7pm".

So I turn up and she greets me with a kiss at the door, so we go straight to her bedroom as her housemate was cooking in the kitchen. After 15 minutes of chit chat I go in for the make out and we start groping and then she brushes my hands of her chest. So I ask "What's wrong?", she says "Um, I don't think I can do this". I reply "Hey that's okay, but you called me over for a reason".
I back off and try again a few minutes later, she denies me again so I try the freeze out and say "You know I'm quite turned on now... Maybe I should go?". This backfires on me and she says "Yeah".

I leave her room and walk to the front door hoping she would change her mind and take me back into her room. To no avail.

I've slept with this girl before and was surprised she changed her mind like that, I assume she has another guy in the picture and maybe she felt guiltly or something. Luckily I have other options so I'm not really that bothered. Just a bit miffed that it went sour... Shortest non-booty call ever, 20 mins of frustration! Haha.

Anyone else had anything similar?

We can rock n roll at the drop of a hat..some woman more aggressive than others but sometimes its a idea kinda not to be so blatant with it ha. she called you over for dinner and movie? maybe it was implied she'd sleep with ya after dinner movie or maybe she was self conscious with her friend being ther.. either way its good idea to see it from her point dude..not to suggest not being the man and all taking control that.. sometimes showing little bit effort doesnt hurt..not always (maybe she just wanted dinner movie ha) only joking man

If it was LMR using freeze out method to say ya know what I'm really hungry right now bolt to kitchen grab food showing some patience/restraint ....much easier typing those words do than in moment dude!

Personally I think with her mate being ther it wasnt a green light man!

Hey, U2kickass cheers for the response.

Yeah the fact her housemate was there was an unexpected factor for her as well as me.

Oh, one thing I forgot to mention before is that there was a time constraint as she had to leave for work in just over an hour (nurse on night-shift). Hmm maybe she just wanted male company for dinner - but lured me with the pretext of a quickie, lol.

Anyway the reason I was cold with her as she has previously flaked out on me a few times, cancelling dates at the last minute etc.

I never liked to ask, I think its better if it happens, or you make it happen!

I dont think "Hey that's okay, but you called me over for a reason". was a good thing to say......maybe she just didnt get turned on as usual....did you do anything different!/ Maybe you got too comfortable, over confident?

Not having a go...just what I'm reading from it

By the sounds of it, you're probably not far off with the guess that she's getting cold feet. Why she's getting cold feet? Who knows - maybe she's got a new man, maybe her friends think she's a slut for sleeping with guy she's not going out with, maybe she's just doing that very womanly thing and changing her mind. Why she didn't want to fuck you that night is irrelevant.

As a man of abundance it shouldn't matter to you. She doesn't want to fuck you? Ok, her loss then. Go out and meet someone else and she'll soon come running back.

Just be cool and try not to overthink it.

Haha most definately I was too comfortable, she called me a player and said that I probably do this to other girls... Doh!

Good feedback guys!

Yeah I'm not sweating it. Just like to share my failures, so I can work on them and contribute something to the community.

bad breath?

If she calls you a player, admit it and say you have met with 20 women that morning alone, if she pushes you about it, back off, tell her off that it was funny at first but it's getting rude now.

She'll probably apologise and try to make it up to you.

Dont read too much into it. My guess is she didnt expect her flatmate to be there. And if shes a screamer, it would have been an awkward situation. Why dont you initiate next and see what her response is...?

Agree with Legend, just pop her a message like nothing bad happened and ask her to do something with you.