I have always struggled with AA and in having the confident to approach sets unless I'm slightly intoxicated. Been thinking a lot about it recently and thinking of ways to help myself.

Anyway, was passing The Trafford Centre on the way home from work today. Decided to throw myself in the deep end so to speak by doing:

1) Solo Approach
2) Direct Opener - You cute, can I take you out sometimes?
3) Only HB8 - HB10

It took me 20 minutes to open my first HB. She was selling Millie's Cookies (yumm) and I got a straight NO without even a smile, and I walked off but deep down I was yelling YES, I DID IT.

Then another 10 minutes, I was in Selfridges and this HB was selling a new aftershave. I went up to her and I got the "I have a BF" bitch shield test. I said ok, and then walked off.

Anyway, I have summarised my day game "journey" below:

1) Millie's Cookies - No
2) Selfridges - Boyfriend Bitch Shield (BBS)
3) John Lewis - BBS
4) On a bench - BBS
5) Debenhams - No
6) Paintball Booth - No
7) This is a woman feeding a baby on a bench. Shes defo an HB9 and I have to open her, so my direct opener was "tell me you are a single mom cos you are so cute and I want to take you out" - BBS and with a giggle. God shes stunning.
8) Boots - BBS and a big giggle

By the 6th HB, I texted Swype and Kowalski about what to use to response to BBS and K texted back and this is cool shit man (thx K) - Every girl needs a Beta Provider and an Alpha Breeder. Used it on 8th HB and she was giggling.

I didnt even think about the BBS and the Nos...in fact I dont give a shit. I just feel that I have achieved something that I never thought I could have done.

Happy Days..!

Well fucking done fella

I love field reports like these.

Man, what an ice queen...maybe she wasn't making many sales that day. I like the idea of direct approaches but never had the balls

Hey Bro, welcome to the forum. You probably right about the sales, cos I never seen her again in that stall...haha! Direct approaches are for me to grow some balls, I never expect any results but who knows....!

Much Success!

I saw Adam do a direct approach and get a number and it was really impressive, I'm not sure I've got the balls for that yet.

It's good that you don't worry about it, the cookie girl she seems pretty cold and probably won't be much fun or very nice if she can't even smile at someone paying her attention.

The way you're going about it seems pretty sweet way of doing it, by not being fussed about the no's then you'll probably get to the stage where you can say anything and try out tons of random stuff.

lovin the "single mom" line opener........... might use that......

great balls too pal...............

Nice work Legend. I too am interested in using Day Game openers to help my all round game as you cannot rely on alcohol or a social setting in these instances. I've not gone in as direct as yourself as yet, but have tried a more indirect technique by asking random girls walking on the street questions like: 'do you know where ___ bar is, or ____ street.

I've tried 2 stints of 5 approaches (which are missions in the early phases of the book The Rules of The Game) and noticed 4 out of the 10 girls i opened seemed to be willing to stop and chat beyond the initial opener which suprised me. For example they would ask me questions or look at me waiting for me to say something else to prolong the interaction.

Dipping my toe in this field of gaming makes me realise there is mileage or opportunities from these 'chance' encounters on the street. I guess it's a matter of building on the opener in a similar way you would in a bar and changing the direction of the conversation into one where rapport and attraction can be built.

Cheers chaps.
Been doing this direct approach twice since and had 1 #-close. It is just fab building confidence. I changed the "cute" bit to "hot" hahaha!
Anyway, Swype is the master of day game..in case you miss it, he has written some fab tips of how to go about with this here: http://www.puaforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=489&page=2
Check it out.

Much Success!