Hey all just came back from my 1st sarge, number closed this 8.5 brazilian girl but my big problem is knowing when to move in for the kiss so ill write my report and you all can give reccomendations for when the right time should have been.
So I entered the bar after work(around 1145) and met up with a few mates, all of a sudden I notice this trio of girls at the bar, I got the 3 second rule and went for it, I opened with (have I seen you somewhere before? (I know it was crap but it was the 1st thing to come into my head) they explained that they were brazilian and only arrived a few days ago. As we got talking I rated them as a 4, a 6 and this 8.5, who I pretty much blanked for the first 5 mins of conversation. Then I turned to her and said something along the lines of "what about you?" I can't remember the topic of conversation but she replied to me and then we got talking, her name was brazilian and really hard to pronounce (something like gabrixilima) so I just called her gabby lol anyway then this prick showed up trying to take the piss out of me to win the girls over with some stupid line like "I see your brazilian but argentina will win the world cup" as they all turned to engage this guy I said to them that I was going to chat with my friends. Gabby said "please come back soon, I enjoyed meeting you" about 30 mins later the bar was closing and I met them outside again and number closed gabby after another chat. I would have preferred a kiss close but couldn't gauge the right time to do so. Any suggestions??? -dec

Hey mate,

Foreign girls are different story really so its hard to say any set-in-stone rules about when to do something. My advice would be to build up physical contact as you go (like hug when you saw them outside) and just wait till the feeling's right for the kiss(lots of eye-contact and looking at each others lips etc.)

It's hard to say an exact time when this should occur, especially with a foreign girl; I was in a club the other day and some french girl tried hitting on my mate by sitting down next to him and leaning on him. It seemed really naive whereas some other time an italian girl tried hitting on me by going straight for the kiss(which completely overwhelmed me even though she was alright-looking). Just go with your gut-feeling really.

Another note, if you got her number maybe you should a text her way and offer to show her around or some shit.

Exactly the manouvre I would be taking. You know the city, show her what she hasn't seen yet, show her something interesting!

As for the kiss, you've got to escalate and stop thinking too much. You want her, take some risks in order to get her.

nova has a good point there, id tell her about a place thats good and that you should take her

Hey Buddy

Difficult to offer advice not being there and all. However would say that you should need to ramp it up a bit with Kino escalation ( hugs, high 5's, twirls, shoulder rubs e.t.c ) and then isolate before going for the kclose. If she is with 2 others she may get embarrassed if you Kiss her in front of them ( so can help if your wing can occupy them whilst you isolate). Once isolated ( and after a lot kino ) I usually use the line.. " on a scale of 1-10 how good a kisser are you? "

Its worked every time for me but you will need to get the calibration right.

Good luck man!

Will

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