Right boys seeing as I am planning a night out with my fellow PUAs i felt like i should start warming up early as i wouldnt want to embarrass myself with them. I realise despite my continued efforts to tell people that I am new to the game there are certain expectations that you just cant help but feel when your about to meet a PUA

How good is he, does he have any AA, how confident etc etc. So I needed to warm up to try and live up to any hype they might have of me lol


So in the past few days I have been trying to improve my day game because thats where I have the most AA.

Anyways I was sat on the bus and in enter these 2 HBs I would rate them to an 8 even though to be honest they looked quite youn (19 or 20) and - this is the killer- had headphones on.

Most guys wouldnt have bothered but I was like if I open these Set it should give me plenty of confidence tonight.

Now a week earlier I opened a Set near the bus station with the Jealous gf opener mixed with who lies more, I crashed and burned because I COMPLETLY ruined the opener, I gave DLVs instad of DHVs

something along the lines of my housemate found womens underwear in her room, and her bf says its hers but she knows its not.

I completly ruined it so on the bus all i could think about was how that set was ruined and the more I thought about it the more i phyced myself out of it.

But then one girl turned around and flashed me a smile which gave me enough confidence to go up and say "excuse me (I know your not supposed to say excuse me lol) i need a womans prospective on this, we went on holiday to malaysia, and my mate kissed a girl even though he has a gf,is that cheating"?

So they said "yes" and started asking me if i agreed
then one of them asked me if i had a gf which i mistakenly took for an IOI and when i said no, she said if you did how would you feel if she kissed a guy


Anyways I know now that the major mistake i made was not following through with the story, i shouldve then asked if they ever been to islands and move them to qualify themselves to me

I just felt like sharing because I feel like I truly learnt from this experience, i could've done so many things in hindsight like asked them what they were listening to or throw some negs or whatever

just a few things to ponder about,hope it helps

First off, good man getting stuck in. You took the opportunity - her smiling at you - and responded. Forget what whoever says about 'excuse me', I used to worry that it was apologetic somehow, when in reality it is a standard English pleasantry / greeting and the girl will not even notice. Also I find the scripted openers are harder to progress into the kind of conversation you genuinely want to have with her, i.e. the music she was listening to.

Perhaps consider using that as the opener for a girl with headphones. It's genuine and gives you a lot of scope to talk about stuff you can relate to.

'None at all'...not entirely true K, im sure your mum and sis will be spared the Drunk Beard Method, leaving the rest of us pathetic souls to fight it out for them.

Bagsy! Ks mum!!