Hey all

I am relatively new to the game although i seem to have internalized all the necessary terms but it is a constant learning process that i am relishing.

I have been fine tuning my game and I am not what the ladies would call a fittie so I am def proof that even a guy like me could get an HB 9, the only reason this girl isn’t a 10 is because she’s short and that’s it!

Anyways I first met my target at her house party and when I first met her I didn’t do any openers because I was introduced to her by a friend who invited me.
Anyways I noticed straight away that this girl is well pretty, so I negged and negged hard. Ofcourse not more that 2 or 3 every hour or so, but I made it clear that I wasn’t hitting on ehr.
I worked the room to the point where I was sat on the sofa telling these people about my life and had them all sat around me on the floor like I was giving a story time (if anyone has seen Mystery’s “the Pickup Artist” its very similar to that.

I immediately felt the targets eyes and I could swear she gave me the Doggy dinner bowl look but because like I said I am no mPUA I just chilled, towards the end of the night I asked her to add me on facebook and #closed.

The next day she added me immediately I checked my email and turns out she added me at 9 am in the morning, I really must have made an impression!!

Anyways I messaged her and told her thanks for the add but I wont accept it till she proves herself “worthy”, at this point I knew I went all the way From A1 and ready to S3 but just to be sure I wanted to qualify her more, this girl works as a bartender so shes used to men hitting on her ALL the time and she modelled a bit in Lithuania, a country known to give out the most beautiful women in the world!! (I know now im just bragging) , after a few texts I made an AFC mistake and said shes impressed me enough to go for dinner but at this point I am actually interested in making her mine instead of a quickie although I am worried that my new success with women might make me develop a one-itis for this girl. So I took her to a thai resutrant and then asked her if she would like to continue getting to know each other so I took her to a bar, although instead of taking her to crowded run of the mill bars or pubs I took her to a very different one, its the fab cafe if anyhone has heard of it.

Basically a very different bar with walls filled with paintings of Star Wars, movie ref (Wolfman Frankenstein). Shit like that just to throw her awareness off, it was a risky move because It might have put her off completely but I am telling you this woman was that pretty.

Anyways turns out it was a brilliant move from my end because she felt I had something unique that didn’t fit her bill as the usual guys, afterwards I said lets go dancing and pulled her to a different club that was supposed to play salsa music but turns out they stopped doing that (but the whole point was to get her to go to various different places to give the illusion that we spent more time together than we really did). At the “fake Spanish club” (our new inside joke) . We started talking about kissing and exs and shit then she goes out of the blue. “are you planning to kiss me tonight?” I was like “maybe, I still haven’t decided if your a good kisser or not “ I figure this girl likes to be teased, so later while shes talking about some shit I don’t even think I was listening I was just planning my next move, I put my finger to her lips and kissed her. After a few mins of making out, drinks talk making out again, I grabbed her and said “thats it your coming home with me”. We called a cab and went back to mine.

We barely spent 2 mins in my room before we were all over each other, she didn’t leave till the morning. Now I feel like I want to sarge every little thing I see, confidence is over the moon.



Black_Lightning.

Lol nice post mate I'm impressed, your going to have to show me some of these new skills you have aquired.

The right action you took was not pretending you weren't interested, far from it. The right action was taking action and kissing the girl after she asked. I’m glad you didn’t pretend you weren’t interested here.

well kowalski telling her she wasnt worthy was just a bit of banter to be honest, taking her to Fab cafe was a risky move because you dont exactly take a date to a place like Fab, maybe someone you wanted to LJBF with.

The AFC move was to ask her out for a date, as such meaning dinner and me paying for her, from what i read which is not alot really thats not the best way to go for a HB9 or 10.

Seeing as this was the first time i actually used the game to get the girl i disagree with you, a few months ago i would have never had the confidence to approach such a girl let alone ask her out

isn't that why we all got in the game in the first place?

But i agree with you it wasnt the perfect approach and i have a great deal of fine tuning my technique but hopefully my fellow PUA will learn from my mistakes and avoid them.

My flatmate who is not involved with this scene and is basically a messy welsh geek took his girlfriend there on a first date and they're still together.
I don't think it matters too much about the place as long as you can be yourself, the entertainment is you!

If you like the place then surely that’s all that matters. Like Tom says, the surroundings are fairly irrelevant. Her focus will be on you. For my money bars are classic dating venues, they’re the perfect balance, but again it’s about what you like. If you like vintage real ale houses or owl sanctuaries (thanks to Alan Partridge) then that’s where you should take her. Also, what’s the chump thing about going on date? It either is or it isn’t, don’t be ashamed of your intentions towards a girl.

Cheers for clearing things up guys

I appreciate it, planning to go sarging in leeds this weekend, so if people are around please do come

the more the better

yeah we def should

Leeds is filled with HBs,they are everywhere

I am trying to gather as many PUAs here as possible, the more the better in my view

I'm up for that too!

Kowalski any ideas on dates?

That will be wicked man, def up for that.....some wicked hotspots in leeds...