Hey Kowalski,

Yes, I say that but not during an approach to a stranger. That's after building rapport and having got commitment from a girl.

I disagree completely. I think it is a wonderful thing to say and I am usually left with the girl all smiling and she says thank you.

They had taught this to me in a bootcamp in Charisma Arts and the Charisma Arts instructors were some of the coolest people I have known.

Maybe the context from which I was delivering this complement was not clear from my posts.

We can clear this up over Skype if you still have more doubts.

Take care

Dhruv

Day 11
 

Name: Georgie
Unique thing about her: She is a David Bowe fan. She works in finance, is going to move to Brighton next year to study medicine. Lives in North West London. Her boyfriend lives in Brighton. Lived in Australia for a few years. Goes to Hampshire on the weekends to visit her boyfriend's family for walks and with his dog. Does drawing.

No. The girl is still a stranger and it's a totally creepy thing to say to a stranger. And, no surprise, girls think you are gay. Yep, they smile. Yep, they say thanks. To their new gay friend.

Pua is not about picking up girls is about impressing boys. They impressed you. That's their goal. That's how their business model works. Let's have the maths revolve around you instead of them...

How much was the bootcamp? How long ago was it? How many times you got laid since then? How many times you normally get laid in the same amount of time? What's the difference aka your return on investment?


Peace,

kowalski

Hey Kowalski,

I am sure you mean well. But frankly I don't want your feedback. This is my journal and my space to reflect on my experiences.

I don't want to be criticised as creepy or gay and have you repeatedly insist that what I am doing doesn't work in my journal. Because it does work for me in the field. Girls never find me creepy or weird. That is somebody else's stuff. The first time was fine because we are a community, but I find the repeated criticism and insistance off putting.

Frankly, your comments are putting me off from posting in this forum all together.

Please respecting me and give me some space in this thread.

Lol. Read any of many newbie threads. Step one - deny. Step two - get defensive. This is not the path to growth and enlightenment.

So, you are a virgin. That's ok, man. Or... tell us more about what works for you in the field? You've gotta choose between reality and ego. Can you bang chicks on the reg? If not, then you need to open yourself to insistent criticism from those who can... or wallow in the comfort of rejection avoiding techniques and go on dates with girls who think you're a lonely fag.


Peace,

kowalski

I don't consider you enlightened Kowalski nor your comments accurate nor helpful. What I do really works well for me and I am improving rapidly.

I am not really interested in taking this conversation any further with you in my journal. Please stop posting here in my journal and respect my space.

Lol. Welcome to public space.

Define "works" though... break it down... if what you are doing works, tell us what you are doing and what your results are? Why do you keep posting here about how nothing is working? If things are working, let's hear about those times too... I dunno, start a podcast telling us about all the hot chicks you're stabbing and how we can get results like yours, please, with evidence of your runaway success and how the thousands you spent on a bootcamp catapulted you from zero to zero punto zero.

Pua is an aspie magnet.


Peace,

kowalski