Thoughts on this story from the field?
Hey fellas, :wavey:
Recent story from great (and strange) night..thoughts really appreciated Story goes as follows. I m invited to a cool event with lots of HB8-9s. The deal was dinner for a couple of hours and after-party at London club At dinner: really fit girl (8-9) with many looks on her by surrounding tables, sits next to me. I initiate very naturally, teasing, negging slightly, subtle touches here and there, so we got a great rhythm going on. After 30' another 2 girls sit close (quite lucky) so i start socialising with them a bit, always keeping an 'eye' on the one next to me. I take a first 'test' and invite her outside for a 'break'. She accepts without second thought, even stood up before i did. We keep a great talk going on with slight flirting etc..at this point i am the top of the game, thinking this will end well. Back to the table, some more talk and then time to leave for the after-party. She asks me if i want to go with them. I think 'no rush', i ve set the groundwork, so i play it cool and tell her i ll wait for my friend and will catch you later, which i think annoyed her a bit. Reason i say 'annoyed her' is because she said 'OK but it was great meeting you, kisses me, walks off'.. ..before i continue the story (at the club), really wanted thoughts and feedback on how you'd have handled it up to this point? |
Thanks for the time to read and offer your opinion mate. I hate to say it but, retrospectively, I see your points and totally agree. I was being consumed on tactic rather than essence.
i think I also got into the stupid mindset that we have a long night ahead and thought best to go slow As you might have already guessed, later on at the club things had already died off-she looked less interested, not able to talk much due to noise&area restrictions..etc..so basically game over. as those chances dont appear too often, feeling quite low now :) |
When I read it I was also like WTF
Set the groundwork? Play it cool? Bollocks. Hot girl asked you to accompany her to the club/after party. You ditched that opportunity and for what? I would have went. You don't have to be a little pussy & jump around shouting yayyyy the hot girl asked me to the after party. Just go. |
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lesson learned |
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But since, I realised from the likes of the guys on here, I should be in less of a game mindset and doing things because its who i am. So agree with the comments. Keep growing |
thanks for the input..its quite funny sometimes, thinking that to be more successful you finally need to go back to who you are-no games; makes you wonder whats the point of the whole game 'mindset'.
As time goes by i find the whole 'game' thing is only there to show a more 'attractive' way to put yourself out there, but only up to the point where things are 'on'..after that it should be you&yourself |
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