Hey guys,

So this approach turned out to be a success in terms of creating an awesome interaction and getting the girls number.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84cc8Y2Af2E

(I'm not sure how to make the link redirect so you may have to copy and paste it, sorry)

If you watch it you may notice that I don't really do anything amazing or impressive but I know how to keep the conversation going just with very basic questions. You'll be surprised though, there is a structure to what I'm saying and doing that ends with the number and a stronger chance of her not flaking.

There are a few questions one must ask a girl before asking for her number.

1. Where she lives
2. What her relationship status is like
3. What she enjoys doing for fun
4. What her schedule is like for the next few days

This info will help you plan a better second meeting. Most guys just go for the number without a clue about where she actually stays. She may not even live in the same city as where you met her. She may have a BF. If you know what she enjoys doing and you link that to your own life and then invite her to do that thing she'll be more interested to do what she likes doing.

Have you ever invited a girl out only to find she is busy? Try find out before hand so that you can invite her when she has nothing to do.

Are you starting to see how this all works?



If you're really struggling I bet I'll be able to diagnose why and prescribe a solution. Feel free to get in touch with me directly or through facebook Richard Macilwaine