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Default Mother and daughter set in a London cafe - 13-04-2015, 07:34 PM

Not only was this my first ever cold approach but it was one that can be rather challenging too, the feared parent and daughter set.

here is what happened:

i was sitting in a cafe near st pauls in central London, i saw this stunning HB 9.5 girl walk in with her mother, i felt i had to take action as i am 22 now and feel that i really should take action and always approach every girl i see that is attractive unless she is on her own with a man her age. anyway i walk up to the mum and daughter, i say to the mom how attractive her daughter is, they both smile and thank me, i introduce myself to the girl and things are generally positive as both her and the mum are smiling albeit in a very surprised fashion. i talk to the mum too and ask them what they are up to, they say they are heading to some seaside town in england, i feel myself getting very nervous having not done such a thing before, as i can tell the mum is eager to leave and so i straight up ask the girl if she would like to go out with me, she smiles and laughs a bit, just seems a bit shocked Lol, her mum says she lives in scotland which is about 400 miles away, i say that is no problem but the mum insists that would be too much of a commute for me, things are getting uncomfortable as the girl has not said anything, i ask if she has facebook as her mum is there and i know facebook is a safer option than a number and she just says "no i dont" i should have asked for her number but things were so tense with her mum and everything i just let them go.

how does this sound for a first cold approach?
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Default 13-04-2015, 10:55 PM

explain the creeped out bit please, was it because she was with her mum? was it because i came on too strong?
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Default 14-04-2015, 03:42 PM

Props for approaching a Mum & girl for your first approach.

But as soon as she told you she lives in Scotland, you should have just politely excused yourself, that's a dead end and no point in takign it any further.
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Default 21-04-2015, 09:12 AM

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her mum says she lives in scotland which is about 400 miles away,
I like how she spelled it out for you

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i say that is no problem
lol of course it's a problem, saying it is no problem is like saying "oh thats ok, I'm prepared to travel for my stalking"

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but the mum insists that would be too much of a commute for me,
I'm liking the mum so far

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i ask if she has facebook
Don't ask IF questions because it leads to an easy NO. You wouldn't ask IF she has a phone, would you?

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how does this sound for a first cold approach?
Ballsy, but young and no common sense. Keep at it though, ballsy will get you a long way and you'll get good fast if you get better at banter with it.


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