hey guys first a bit about my history with girls which is almost none i am 25 and have grown up in a mostly male environment with only 2 friends in my life both of who have been in a relationship for along time so this means i hardly ever went out and learn the skills to talk to people i was classes as the shy quite guy the only time i did sleep with a girl was when i said sod this and went to vegas on my own which ended in an extremely drunk encounter with a girl what was when i was 22. i finally decided to take action and force myself to learn how to talk to girls which was 5 weeks ago since then i have gone out every weekend and made forced myself to approach i have met up with others in my situation around the country helping each other and gathering new tips.

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The first weekend i whet out and took it small i just approached girls and ask there opinion on something got there answer and thanked them and left this was an eye opener for my i realised that girls arnt these scary monsters who will eat me up if i talk to them i started to feel comfortable i kept oing this all night and i even decided to stay in the conversation a few time to see how long i could keep there interest before i noticed a drop in interest at which point i made my leave. The next day i got to Manchester for 10am and tried what people call day game i thought if im going to learn this i want to learn it all so i made my first approach i ran in front of here stopped her told her she was cute and wanted to talk to her 3 mins later i got her number i was soooo happy i had never got a number before, i know that 1 number means nothing in real terms but it gave me all the boost and inspiration i needed to realize that i can learn how to do this i got 3 more numbers that day i couldn't believe it nothing came of the numbers but i didn't care at that point i just saw it as practice. the night was i hole lot different to day game but still i enjoyed my self and kept approaching i even got a girls giving my signs she liked me touching my chest and arms ect.. but got blown out by another guy. all in all my first weekend taught me that i can learn this and that i have nothing to fear from girls in fact they can be fun.


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the next weekend i went out was in Birmingham when i met up with another guy we went out and had a blast approaching and i got tips on not leaning in and not watching the room for girls i was alot more relaxed and things where getting smoother my highlight was a polish girl who kept teasing me and i kept teasing her.

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the next weekend was in Brighton where i met some experts and wow did they push me dam game was intense approaching everywhere and they even challenged me to get a instant date which i did with a very hot Spanish girl when for a coffee with her and got her number after very pleased with myself i was talking to her and just thought fuck it and ask if she wanted to get a coffee she said yes at which point i was like oooh shit did she really just say yes what do i do now hahaha anyway i winged it and it went well cause she gave me her number. The night time was mental so many approaches i don't even remember them all the guys kept giving my challenged and i gave them challenged which made things seems funnier and easier when you have a focus do to, from teaching a girl the tango when i don't know it myself hahaha to swapping shoes with a girl and getting a picture in stilettos haha crazy. learnt to relax and have fun with it dont get too worked up about approaching and what your saying if your enjoying it hey will to feeding of your energy.

4: this weekend i only approached 1 girl during the day cause i was just to busy to get out shame on me i did notice i have become way more cheeky with shop assistants maybe its a side effect of being so social that i am becoming naturally more chatty.


5: wow what can i say about this weekend a whole new level came out of me on the Saturday night not only had a spent abit off money to look sharp in a new blazer and shirt i just became i machine at opening all of a sudden i was the center of attention in the night club there was 5 of us and we completely look over the cub we was having such a fun time girls where coming up to us i got into a deep conversation with a hot nurse in a very night white dress lasted 1hr never spoke so long to a girl before non stop i got her number after and the craziest story ever happened to me, me and my mate was talking to a girl and she was very into the conversation and me with lots of touching going on anyway one of the other guys comes and starts talking to her but i don't think she liked him cause she brought me back in role playing saying i was her boyfriend so i went with it and role played it the i went for it and kissed her boom! first kiss in like 7 years she went off after another 15 mins but she came back and brung me too her group and introduced me to her REAL BOYFREIND ahahaha i couldn't believe it she was just kissing me 10 min ago now she does this i found it so funny anyway i don't think he new cause i just engaged him conversation a little until i found a way to eject myself and go back to the other guys. what i learnt was to take the lead and move girls about so it feeling like more of an adventure with you rather than stay in the same place talking to her.


I cant wait to keep going at it and learning more and more

Y'know despite your lack of grammer and punctuation (no offence but this post could be easier to read) I think this is the the best ever post I've ever read on here.

You've done all this in the space of 5 weeks?? When you went to Vegas, did you just go there on your own?

This is awesome, if this is what you can do in 5 weeks I'd be interested to see where you are in 5 months. Good work!

yea you shall have to forgive me for my grammer i never managed to grasp it i'm and engineer so i don't need to write much .
I did go to vegas on my own it was the first time i went away on my own, i always wanted to go but had no won to go with so i decided to that i'm not going to let the fact that i will be on my own stop me from going somewhere i want to go and off i went. The advantage of going on my own was it forced me to talk to people instead of just chatting with a mate the entire time so i really opened up and met a lot of people thankfully Americans are chatty too so that helped.

My next 3 weekends are booked up with Newcastle and Birmingham to meet and learn from guys who are learning this stuff as well i have been keeping a daily journal which helps me keep focused i write minimum 3 positive things that i have done and i write what i can add and do differently the next day so its mini goals instead off a big one that seems so far away.

I'm finding one of the hard things is that all i want to do is read about pickup methods but i know if i do that it will be too much to handle at once so i'm trying to avoid my temptation to read all the books out there.

By the sounds of it you don't need to read anything. I'm not saying reading stuff is bad, but for now I'd just keep doing what your doing.

I would like to share what i learned this weekend in Newcastle. First a lot more girls than guys hahaha. Saturday night started excellent first bar we went into way pretty empty cause it was early, still there where 2 girls at the bar which we opened with asked them if they liked my pocket square which worked well had a great little chat, went off to talk on our own but they made it very clear they wanted to talk to us more by passing us a lot and standing close to us, we decided to re engaged since we didn't have much options at the time so my mate rick glanced over his shoulder waved them over and we had a laugh with them got there number and left. Another set was a hen party of 11 girls i noticed they where very bored and kept looking over at us we desscused how to go about opening them cause it was difficult from where they where so it would have to be very direct, we almost didn't do it and was about to leave when i said "no we're being pussy's lets just do it" i walked straight into the middle of the group demanded there attention and opened with an asking them there opinion on rock stars vs pop stars worked great, i then introduced the guys and had an very cheeky conversation with 2 of them hahaha.

Sunday night there was 2 of us, we were tired and low energy but we recognized that and decided to just ask a bar girl a topic we was interested in which was do girls get approached by guys during the day or just at night it worked well because we didn't force it and was really interested in knowing the answer, After that our energy levels had changed completely, we where ready to get to work. we had lots of great and fun interactions, the last girl of the night was really into me and i don't blame her i was being a bad ass everything was coming together perfectly, i was sat down talking to her getting every physical with each other and her friends came over i engaged them a bit and my mate came noticed this can came over to wing i introduced him and went back to talking to her but her friends where getting very jealous that i wasn't paying them any attention which my mate couldn't hold there attention i ended up getting her number anyway but i learned there is a very fine line between giving the friends just enough attention to keep them happy while escalating with your target.

Thing i need to learn are i have no problem opening girls now and even getting good at being in the deep conversation state what i need to lean to do now is:

1: build the attraction to the point i starts getting sexual
2: seduction i need to break down and understand how it works

Well it's been quite some time since i have been on here, I have now massively developed even to the point of yesterday getting my first fuck buddy. This was the reason i decided to come back on here, when i look back at how i was before i started to learn game its an incredible change in me. i am confident, witty, bold, risk taker and every girl i approach i have 100% belief in myself that i will have her. I would just like to say that to any new guys out there that you have to persist with it keep going out keep trying you will get better and better. Just trust in yourself and the methods which are taught. Also remember that however good you start to get there is always more to learn.

Sounds like good work mate. Do you feel as though you still need opening routines or do you just go in with no plan? What kind of techniques are you using these days? I'm completely new to this by the way and haven't got any pua experience and am generally not that great with girls.