Hello Guys,

This thread is going to serve as my self improvement diary for the foreseeable future! The main topics of this thread will revolve around Social Circle Game, Self-improvement and Success! I am writing this mainly for my benefit, and I don't mind if people don't read it, but if I can help people, or be helped along to way then I know it will be much easier

All my life I have been an intelligent person (in the top 2.5%). In my school life, up until I was 16 I found every single lesson extremely easy, tests were a breeze, I was lavished with praise and was graded very highly. It was this exact behaviour, given to me by my peers, teachers, parents and my ability to excel at most things without trying that conditioned me into believing that I never needed to try for anything. Why revise for a test that I know I'm going to ace? Now anyone that has studied success will know, you don't need to have a high IQ to be a successful person. Motivation and perseverance through failure are by far the highest determining factors. These are two things that my education didn't teach me. I was essentially taught (through my academic achievements and praise) that everything was going to be okay because I was smart...

I think that the education system in my case was the most damaging thing to happen to my development as a human being and the deeply ingrained conditioning I have developed from this, has and is going to take, years more worth of development to fix.

So I turned 16 and 6th form was a huge reality check! I got kicked out for incompetence, I developed a soft and hard drug habit, worked in factories on zero hour contracts, cheated on a girlfriend many times and burned a lot of social bridges. But somewhere in all of that I discovered Self-Development and then my progresses in that lead me to the RSD and finally the game as a whole.

My self development journey so far has given me a lot of successes:

• I stopped being a socially awkward computer nerd
• I have changed my figure from an obese person to a comfortable size
• I lost my virginity and now have now layed over 10 women
• I've dated hotter and hotter girls (currently dating an 8)
• At my peak I had at least 4 strong social circles (all but 1 have dwindled now)
• I gained a strong sense of fashion and style

...but, I have a long way to go, and I feel there is a newer sense of urgency since I have entered my 20's. I am currently a 21 year old male, living in a northern town in england with my parents and my girlfriend (family problems). My dream is to be a business owner/investor and author of fictional and self help books/ebooks.

So finally, here is my objective for the next year and a half!


This is how I am going to achieve this objective:

• Apply to go back to college for a year to boost my UCAS points
• Get a Double Distinction in my course so I only have to take it for a year
• Gain field practice in building a social circle by experimenting within my groups and backing up with theory
• Gain field practice with cold approach and back up with theory
• Choose a business idea and stick with it
• Control my nutrition and exercise/lift multiple times per week
• Take on the NoFap challenge and work on controlling arousal levels, albeit either physical or psychological

Oh I also know that at some point I'm gonna have to break up with my GF of 2 years if I want to practice cold approach and social circle game, this is something I have been thinking about for around 6 months. She is due to go away for 10 weeks starting from April the 1st, this will give me plenty of time to work on myself for a while but I am going to remain faithful. I will try a few approaches though, but don't expect to see me going hard whilst we're in this relationship as it' a small town and news travels fast.

I am not quite sure what sort of form factor I want to develop for my posts so I am going to experiment, but I know I want to keep this to 1 post a week minimum containing highlights, analysis, successes, tactics and supplemental media

If you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read this journal. I hope you enjoy my little story!

Nice post & I hope things work well for you.

If you want to go back to Uni, forget about starting a business, even if it is on the side. You said you flunked School in the end due to incompetence & you admitted yourself you don't really work for much - you can't just "turn up" and get a degree. You'll need to study - plenty of time for a business after Uni, your still very young. If your really intelligent, put in the work and study - get yourself a 1st class with honours or Masters.

What are you studtying?

Instead of having a business - get a social related job - a bar job. Gives you plenty opportunity to interact with women. Do that, study, and hit the gym 2 - 3 times a week. The rest of your practising pick up will come as part of your Uni social life.

I hope things go well for you. One final point though - if you "think" your going to break up with your girlfriend shortly (or need to), don't wait 10 weeks whilst she is away or whatever - just do it now.