Now I'm back in the game I want to challenge myself more. This means doing things I haven't previously done. One of them is getting out of my comfort zone and doing night game. Sure I've been out to socialise and to enjoy music in clubs, but I've it must be 3/4 years since I've been out with the intention of approaching girls as my primary objective.

So, Sat night I headed out with a couple of fellas I normally do day game with. The first bar we headed to was Living Room. Immediately I'm feeling overwhelmed by the loud music and amount of people. I grab a beer and look around standing next to my mates. I feel the pressure of expectations and future projections of what I 'should' do, how I 'should' behave, with the idea I want to pull a girl, etc eating away at me. I make eye contact with a girl in a group of 5 and decide I want to approach. I mull it over for 5 minutes then am pushed to get over there.

I open two of them in the group and tell the other girl how beautiful her friend is. Then she gives me free reign to chat to my target and talks to other members of the group. I was so in my head that the conversation was boring and awkward so I ejected after a couple of minutes.

Then onto Panacea. Man, the girls in here are seriously hot. Big tits everywhere, was like being in LA or something. Again I'm in my head and have no clue what to do with myself. My wing Riz tells me to just start from the beginning, just open someone. This took the pressure off quite a bit. From here I opened one girl asking how her night was going, and then went up to another and told her how much I loved her hair. This was the highlight and I got in close to her as we flirted, then i ejected.

The big lesson was that I need to work on this, like from step 1. Like Riz suggested, I need to concentrate on just opening. I only saw one guy other than our group even have to balls to approach a girl in there. This is gonna be a long road, but I'm patient and and willing to put the hours in want to tackle the problems I have here.

Yeah how do you do that? I cant understand!!! Because the last time I went out with you, you got in fights and me, Jaz and Rob had to step in! Maybe you just bottled them. . . Oh wait thats what Kowalski does to people for no reason.

Anyway nice job on Panacea I hear its a good bar/club to go to, some stunners in there.

I wouldn't call that a 'fight', more like a heated exchange of words with some dude.

I've never seen so many pairs of big tits... nearly took my eye out several times.

I hope that was you doing your argument thing you like to do and not actually being serious. You literally made a post above me where you made a snidey little remark about me and then call mine 'low'. My response was nothing more than to show you guys aren't too above drunken aggression either. I've heard you've done it more than once as well but I never judged you about it, shit happens when you're drunk. I don't think I can even take your post seriously.

Anyway, Nova you're more than welcome to the meet up on Saturday unless you're busy or take all this forum drama to heart.

No I 'announced' it because it made a point about what you said. I didn't think you'd get so wound up about it but it obviously got to you. I am sorry you were offended. I love how you frame everything and use your sophistry (or whatever it was called that we spoke about a while ago) to make out I was being vindictive and debasing others.

I wasn't trying to make anyone feel shitty or use any tactics but great on the re-frame! Sure plenty of sheep will 'Thank' your post. I was making a point but obviously either:

A) You genuinely were offended and I am sorry if so, but that wasn't my intention.
B) Using it to make me look bad and therefore you look good.
C) You really hate being pointed out your wrong.

Lets say I was being low and a big meany, are you any better with your bitchy remark? I never thought it was private, I only found out because it was something someone said as a funny off-hand story.

Edit: Im sorry I take it all back, you're cool, nice shirt.

Edit 2: Its low behaviour to put me down by saying I have ugly, low behaviour man. . . you've caused me emotional distress.

I realised I wrote it as if I was just telling someone who already knew, in a rushed way. Which is how I write most of my field reports. Then after that Jynx messaged me saying he wants to sort it all out, so I haven't written anything else about it hoping it can cool down. Thanks Jaz.

This thread could do with some man hugs all round I think.

Nice work pal! Havent seen you in a long long time. Good to hear youre back to game