Hey Guys,

A bit of background info: I met this girl in a shop and after chatting to her for about 2 hours, I left. Once I had left I knew I could have asked for her number, so went back in later and got her number. Anyway we see each other quite abit as her shop is opposite my halls. Anyway last week, I asked, what you doing this weekend? And she said nothing, so I suggested fancy washing the cars and going on a high ropes course, to which she said yeh which was last night!

Once she said yeh, I had to book the places, only problem was they had taken down the online booking for the next day. So I was like shit! Anyway, I text her and let her know and I said I will try in the morning. So on Sat morning I rang up and was lucky enough to get two places. So I went to hers and dropped my car off and she drove. This girl is a real good conversationalist, she doesn't wait for questions all the time, she will make statement that spark interest. I honestly have met very few people that are like that! Anyway we get there and have an absolutely amazing time! It was amazing! Bless her, she went on it, even tho she was afraid of heights lol! We had a real blast and took loads pics. Then went back to hers and got ready for a meal, the meal was nice (I am a very fast eater, so made a concious effort to slow down, which she called me out on lol). After that I was shattered, then we ummed and arred about what to do next, she wasnt sure whether to go out or not, I wasnt really feeling a night tbh, but in the end we went out. I was fucked tbh, a mixture of coming down from an adrenaline rush, being up since 8.30am, being the end of my exams and going out the past 2 nights meant i was dead. I tried to get into the mood but tbh, I was that tired, I was walking past my mates and not even seeing them. I deffo got alot of deep raport but I am not sure if I got anything else. I think i went abit AFC at the end tbh. I think my biggest problem is she knows I educate myself on this PUA stuff and I tell her about it, which I think means that I dont wanna use it as she knows what the final outcome will be? Anyone else have that problem?

Things I did well:

1.) I was very comfortable with her
2.) The convo was easy and followed, we talked about everything (sex, life stories...everything)
3.) Lots of kino, hugging and kisses on the cheek, she gave me nothing back tho
4.) Exciting and different Day 2

Problem areas:

1.) I am very good at deep rapport but not sure if this is leading me into 'friends zone'
2.) We talked about kissing and whats good, but I never made the move, didnt get the body language signals that it would work
3.) I think I should have stayed in rather that gone out and left her, I was shattered and prob didnt come across as fun


Anyway this is a pic of my adventures, tbh I think these are the best Day 2's as it will be different! She seemed to LOVE IT!

Maybe abit AFC, but tbh I dont see this as a girl that I would wanna shag and leave tbh, i find these types of girl (fun, easy going etc) hard to properly find, some of them pretend to like this stuff but she has done loads of stuff like this like skydiving etc. I think the sex would be great too, as I know her it will mean more than just a one night stand and if it lead to something else then so be it.

mate.

first off a massive congratulations on some really good work.

You opened, built rapport, got a succesful day 2, and i have to say, shes a 9 easy form that pic!

my only query is thta u may have overdoen it by going out later that night... sometimes too much contact can oversell it!

Although you seem to be well grounded and established really well.

My reccomendation, cool it for a day, and then go for another, shorter but more intense date! perhaps just the evening... then you will be refreeshed, have energy and be able to dedicate a proper night to her!

An evening date witha few drinks, may give u the opportunity to porperly K-Close.. particularly if you are romantic with her.

She knows youre using PUA thats cool, nowt wrong with that, if she asks anything, just remind her its more to do with confidence building and making friends, any person would respect that! Also nothign to say that this has to be a shag-and-leave... although, generating some more intimate and sexual attraction is key, as you do run tghe risk of being friend-zoned!

Let us know how you get on!

Again well done and Respect!

Picard.

yea well done man good work! jus seems u ned to go a bit more sexual, u havent given the impression that u just want to sleep with her and leave and she must realise that, a few drinks and kino escalatin to a kiss. u've given comfort and showin u have interest in her personality, u now need to go seductive and avoid the friend category. let us know how it goes!

Is that go ape in Grizedale?

(And well done of course!)

look atthe picture, she is all yours, just believe!!!

Nah, I am afraid not its Tree Top adventures in Betws-y-coed. Really good fun and they have a 100ft free fall jump if you are feeling adventurous! It was really funny too as I was getting scared with the 100ft jump as i had a 20min wait that meant I had no adrenaline in me, but she said "well I know you are going to do it, because I am here", which was soooooo true! Thanks for the info guys!

I am kicking myself on a few things tbh! The main one is kissing her! I did leave early from the night out as I was completely fucked! I sent her a message saying "Text me when you get home safe"

Then she text me an hour later saying

"I am not sure how I am going to get home as there is 5 of us and only four seats in the car"

To which I said

"Look babes, get a taxi to mine and I will take u home in the morning. The other four dont have the option to stay at anyone's" She new that after a night out if we were in the same bed we would shag.

she next text back until about 2pm today saying

"Aw babes y on earth didnt I have a nite in??? I am so paying for it now x x x"

I am just thinking, maybe she doesnt want a first day shag?

Another question, I met her on Saturday, now I will see her 2morrow because I need to pick something up from her shop. Do I suggest a day 3 next weekend or sooner? She has said she is knackered after work and just wants to go home and rest. I was thinking of suggesting food at mine, then a DVD or something?

Any comments?


Tbh, I have all this thanks to this community and specifically this forum! Cheers Guys!

Relax, just do what feels comfortable.

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