Props for ploughing on alone even though your mate had pulled. Do you find asking to walk a girl home usually pays off? I would have thought that makes things a little too obvious and she might fear feeling slutty.

cheers, i said to her first lets get food and go back to mine and she said she wasn't hungry. so then i said i will walk you home. This is a weak area in my game what works for you Nova? one time i was really direct and i told a girl i was going to bring her home and fuck her and it worked but i'm not as forward these days.

Assume it and lead
"I'm hungry lets go eat" or just "I'm taking you home".
Whenever I've taken someone home I've not said anything it was just assumed

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Last Night

Me ninja and his friend, dont know his pua name headed out into town. We headed to a bar first which was packed full of lovely ladies but was very noisy. me and ninja approached a 2 set and went in direct the girls were not that receptive and we didn't chat to them for long. I chatted to blonde girl but it was so hard to make conversation with the loud music we decided to move onto a club. We got in and it wasnt that busy, ninja and his friend had some nice interactions and then we decided to move onto another club.

We chatted to a few girls in the smoking area, i approached with an indirect opener and chatted to the girls for abit but it didn't really go anywhere. I opened quite alot of sets direct and didn't get too far. Ninja and his mate headed on and i thought i would chat to a few more ladies before heading home. I chatted to a blonde who was with her two friends we had a longer interaction and it went well just needed a wing to chat to her mates. I was then pretty drunk and thought il go for a dance and then head home. i asked this polish woman to dance and danced for abit before she went to find her mates. then i spot this stunning brunette dancing infront of me and we make eye contact and i take her hand, she starts grinding on me and Turning round. we make out and it was getting quite heated. we were chatting and i said lets go back to mine. she said she couldn't until later as t was her friends birthday. i took her number and went to get food i then texted her and met her outside the club later and went home with her.

we were kissing in the taxi then next thing shes sitting on my lap it was the best taxi journey ever lol. It was a great night and it shows that you have to take your chances and if you don't ask you don't get. I didn't realize i was quite drunk at the end of the night which was probable why my direct openers didn't work.

christmas eve

On christmas eve me and some of my mates went to the local. I wasn't really thinking about approaching i just wanted to have a good time. I hadn't seen them for a while and we had some good banter and a good few beers. A blonde was dancing infront of me and backed into me at the bar. She said she didn;t see me and we laughed and chatted abit but i didn't make the most of it. I spent most of the night chatting to people i hadn't seen for ages and had a good time. I ended up going up to dance and my mates sister grabbed me and i danced with her most of the night lol. I can't wait to get out and approach in the new year. i have 2 women i am meeting up with atm so it's a balancing act.

On my way back after christmas yesterday i had to get a rail replacement bus, the joys lol. It was pouring down so everyone rushed on, the bus was packed and i seen a cute brunette in a short dress so i thought i would sit down beside her. Her seatbelt was stuck between the seat and i pulled it out for her. I asked her did she know why the train was off. she didn't but it got the convo started. I asked her was she at uni and it turns out she was working in manchester. she was asking me loads of qs like where i was from and where i live. we had a really good chat. when we got off the bus it was still pouring and i asked her did she have a case? and she said no then said, it was nice to meet you and legged it out of the rain lol. I should have asked for her number on the bus. i was overthinking it abit but it was a great positive convo during the day which shows things are looking up. I just need to work on closing.

Time to focus on closing. I recall having similar situations on buses or trains years ago and I still kick myself thinking about those missed chances. Don't let them accumulate.

i know, i have missed alot of opportunities out and about over the years. It would have been so simple just handing her my phone and telling her to put her number in. I can do it at night so why not during the day!

What sounds simple when written on a forum, is not so simple in the real world, especially when you’re sweating over if she likes you or not. You’ll need to make this part more of a focus and dare I say it, take the risk.