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Default first day back at work and txt game help - 21-01-2010, 08:32 PM

had my first day back at the pub yesterday and someone actually number closed me
australian girl going to ejypt and i was talking to her friend about it when she came to the bar.
her friend told the mark about the chat and she stayed after to talk to me and ended up giving me her number and facebook...
and she left and came back to the pub with another friend...
all good i thought...
anyway

i am in desperate need of help with my txt game...
i am thinking of actually not txting anyone and just calling off the bat...

i txt her on my way home (probably 2 early)
talked about if she got home ok and me waiting for the bus
she txt back straight away with nothing interesting and no prolonging txt question
txt her again and nothing back...
i guess i should have waited till 2day maybe but i was bored at the time...
do u think i should give her a call tomorrow maybe and see how she is doing...?
she is going away in a few days and thinks we should go for a drink b4 she goes...
anyway let me know guys
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Default 22-01-2010, 08:15 AM

I think people put too much emphasis on timing of texts, i.e. when and how long to wait til each text. More often than not this is completely irrelivant and besides the point. Look more carefully at what she is going to make of each text you send. Don't ask boring questions of her that always require a response, she will see this as value taking. Instead inject some fun or text her to give her some value (make her feel good, as opposed to making yourself feel good because she replied). As a rule I don't ask any questions, even when arranging a date.

Call her and arrange the drinks she is suggesting.


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Default 22-01-2010, 08:42 AM

I like the idea of asking questions, remember when you are txting you are not infront of her, she can not see you. I know this sounds obvious but you have to still stand out, maybe she ha forgotten just how attractive you are

I always remember that you should never ask samey questions like Where you from? What do you do? How old are you? etc every guys asks these questions. You are different, you aren't every guys who's tried to pick her up you different and make her realise it. I like the idea of not asking any questions in tx, although I fear I would struggle with this.

Just my two cents
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Default 22-01-2010, 09:14 AM

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I like the idea of asking questions, remember when you are txting you are not infront of her, she can not see you. I know this sounds obvious but you have to still stand out, maybe she ha forgotten just how attractive you are
You will not stand out asking her 'what she is up to' or 'if she got home ok'. It's no so much asking questions that is the issue her though, it's your requiring a response by asking a question. If you come across as not needing a response she will recognise this and might consider 'how attractive' you now are as a non-needy guy.


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Default 24-01-2010, 01:39 AM

If you come across as not needing a response

i think this is a good statement and also if she responds it shows how interested she is...
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Default 24-01-2010, 12:18 PM

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your ultimate goal is to be comfortable on the phone. as it is a massive tool you can use, a very important one.
If you want to stand out from all the other guys texting then this is something to start practicing.


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