visited a university recently during freshers fortnight, on the drive up a new that there was going to be some easy pickings but decided that i would use some game openers and routines just to get some practice in for more challenging situations. I decided each night i would try at least 1 opener and 1 routine on different sets. Ive lost count as to how many women i actually talked and i cant remember all detail about the successes i got. So ive listed the successes below the best i can.

Female no. 1 - HB7
Met her at a friends house party. Negged her quite alot, said she looked alot older than what she was, ignored her alot, made sure i was seen as the AMOG, ignored her when she tried to dance with me however looked directly into her eyes and smiled alot at her. We went home, stopped at hers, pretty good sex tbh, very vocal.

Female no. 2 - HB6
Opened a 2 set with the jealous girlfriend opener, got good vibes off both of them had a good laugh, quickly found out that the targets friend had a BF so directed plenty of my time towards her, with the odd sentence or neg towards the target to keep her interested. Went and had a dance with the target as her friend had to leave, i grabbed and held her hand as she followed me to and from the bar, made her laugh more, went back to hers - she said i could only stop at hers if i promised that we wouldnt have sex. Got foreplay!

Female no. 3 - HB7
She actually approached me, so after that it was easy, made her laugh, used the push - pull theory, had a dance, held her hand whilst she followed me to the bar, told her she had nice lipstick on, kissed her, went back to hers, good sex.

Female no. 4 - HB5
She stood on my foot, so i kicked off at her (jokingly) saying that she had damaged my shoes and that i wanted her to buy me some new ones! Got talking, flirted, made her laugh, KINO'd her, she said she had to find her friends so i got her number. about an hour later i saw her leave, i text her asking why she was leaving early? she went to get food, so i said ill meet her at the food place. Met her, went to hers, sat on a couch had some more drinks, tried to get a kiss, wasnt happening, tried to get us to go to bed, wasnt happening, so i said i was leaving hoping that she wouldnt want me to leave, nope. I left, text Female no. 1, went to hers


Overall i had a good time and have become pretty confident with the openers and sets i practised! Need to learn more now!

After reading this post I really had a strong urge to meet you....and then take you down.

Go back and read that pile of shit you just posted and take a good look at yourself in the mirror.

Then come back here and tell us what kind of person you want really want to be.

And all this "HB" MM negging, etc.. shit is what you need to drop! Stop reading into the books you've bought (The Game & Mystery Method) I presume. Though you probably can't see it at this point in your present life, if you continue down this track you are de-humanizing yourself, I think even Neil Strauss reconised this in himself.

Seems your going out with the goal, maybe even the expectation of the night ending in sex. Personally I think that is a problem.

Ever thought of just been yourself?

yep, what annoyed me was I don't want you preying on unsuspecting girls to get something for yourself when it seems like you have not even sorted your own shit out yet.

It's not just about getting sex. It's about you growing as a person because you put more effort into having good interactions with other people than most people can be bothered to do.

It's the better (maybe unintended) side of PUA IMO. Not just getting notches on the belt. Even though that's an initial motivation for all of us.

you say things like 'good vibes', 'good laughs', etc. That's great stuff. You should rejoice in these things for what they are and that you created it.

But don't turn it into a lab experiment and win/lose numbers game. it's the wrong road to go down in the long run. Neil Strauss is a very smart guy and he saw this happening and didn't want to buy into it.

Just see it as people are enjoying you for what you are, without all the PUA nonsense.

Barney Stinson
thanks for your reply, i will drop all of the HB negging stuff, i am a beginner and im here to learn so i will take your advice on board! i dont go out everynight thinking that i need to get laid i do like to chat to women though. i will try and just be myself and try to stop de-humanizing myself.

Serendipity
i tryed what you told me to do, went back and read my post, then looked in the mirror and smiled! thanks!



anyone else got an opinion?

im sure this forum states 'something' like - Brag about your success and analyse your failures.

It's all well and good bragging that you fucked several chicks but the point I'm making is that it seems you are in this just for the sex. Fine you want to talk to women, just women? But it seems like sex rules your mind.

Your introduction

This is part or the reason why Serendipity told you to re-read your post.



Though for all of us, sex is a desired outcome but it is not essential. You can have a great time without sex. That is a good frame.



Dude you are bragging about your successes, that cool. But you are not analyzing your failures. Seeing and been shown where you have gone wrong and adopting a change in approach, a change in life has to first be accepted by you. Or else they are just words.


Everyone here will all be for helping you dude.

Try to analyse what you did wrong and post it, even if it takes days to figure it out. It will be good for you to first analyse it yourself.

i dont think ive got sex on my mind all the time and as ive said not every night i got out thinking i need to get laid. ive had quite a few nights out where i have failed and i do analyse them and figure out where i went wrong, but im just too lazy to post them up.

thanks for the analysis though!

Failed to do what?

just failed to hold a conversation, approach women, get numbers etc etc.