Hey guys,

So Im pretty new at this and I was browsing this site yesterday and read a couple threads about POF so I thought id give it a go. Bear in mind I have never gamed etc I'm a complete noob.

So I made an account and sent a generic message to some women in my areas. I'm 22 and I'm after a milf. An older woman. Anyways I got 2 responses which was 2 more than I expected. Have a crap profile with no pic lol.

So this milf she is gorgeous and I want her so bad and don't want to fuck this up.

We exchanged some messages on POF then she text me which was surprising then all of a sudden she didn't reply. Last message I sent was at 11:30 and got no reply. Below is the conversation on POF and by text.

What I need to know is what should I do now. What do I text her?

I had two thoughts.

1. Text her saying here are the pics I promised you and see what happens
2. Ask if she fell asleep last night

Basically my next move is critical I feel. Please give me some advice guys!!

Texts

Her: Hi x

Me: who's this?

Her: Julie x

Me: Oh hi I was just about to message you. So you decided to give me your number then

Her: Not sure what I'm doing ?!?! Ha ha x Any pics? X

Me: You don't do this often then?! Without sounding like a weirdo I don't have any on my phone lol how about I take one for you tomorrow?

Her: Ha ha, no pics?! Ok hun, if that's how it has to be! Xx I do these random things and msging a young guy with no pic is not normal for me! X

Me: Tomorrow I'll send you one! I must have got your attention then have you met anyone from that site?

Her: A couple of guys! I've just come back on as was seeing someone the last month or so but didn't work out!
You new on there? Xx

Me: Ah well his loss lol yeah literally just signed up to see what it was all about. Your profile stood out and I had to say hi Like I said I think I need to experience an older woman lol x

Her: Didn't meet any gorgeous girls up in Manchester then?! I take it as a compliment that you like my pics then xx

And by experience, in what way are we talking lol?!?!? Xxx

Me: There was plenty of gorgeous girls in manc and I had a good run lol but now I'm back I need to meet some new faces. Yeah your pics all really nice you're stunning I must say!
And by experience, what do you think I mean haha?!


And that's it. She didn't reply 11:30pm last night. She hasn't replied all day. What do I do now?

This is where you fucked up. It's easy to see.

You might as well have said "i just want to bang an older lady so I'm hoping you're up for it"

When she said to you "by experience, what do you mean?" She wasn't encouraging you to say something that translates to sex, although it is a leading question that you have fallen for. I actually fell for something like this a couple of months ago & almost fucked it but managed to cover my thoughts/projections on my next message.

It would have been wiser to say something like you find the older mature lady more appealing & desireable, not that it's a fantasy of yours.

Thanks for the advice mate. Yeah I know that's where I made the mistake. I can see it now.

What would you recommend now? How can I save this?

Ok so I text her back :

Me : How's your bank holiday been? Hope you spent it in the sun unlike me was working all day from 8am oh yeah those pictures I promised you (I then attached two pics)
I know I look scruffy lol took them before work

Her: your gorgeous hun, not scruffy at all! What do you do? My days been good thanx xx

Ok so I think I saved it with the pics. How do I go about this now? She is a perfect milf really need some helo

funny i was looking at how she writes her messages and thinking. she writes exactly like some older bird i know called julie....

then i see her name... julie. be funny if it was her.

Obv im not gonna ask her like.

Arrange to meet up, and ask for the number.

She likes your face, so time to see whether or not she is serious.

If she isn't, just say 'cool' and move on. Win-Win