Well its been a whole week since my last post about my problems approaching. This has been getting to me a hell of a lot this week to the point where my determination levels have risen beyond belief!

First things first, thanks nova and shark for your comments. Ive read them over and over trying to build confidence in myself and they have certainly helped.

So, this weekend. Was it better than last weekend? Answer = YES!

It all started on friday night. I decided to stay in and have a serious think about what I was going to do about this weekend. My decision was I set myself a task that on saturday I would make five approaches. And unlike last week, i did! The nerves were just as bad and I poughed through. The approaches didnt bring any success however I was still delighted that I could go up to a random woman and strike up a conversation. My nerves were showing so my responses wernt great. However, waking up on sunday morning (after a heavy night on the town) I got showered, changed and went out again! Five approaches, this time, a million times easier. I actually made some good conversations and two of them I opened before I even got to my destination! One cute girl even looked embarrassed and she reminded me of how i probably looked the day before.

Progress has been made. I am no where near where I want to be however I have managed to get over that first hurdle. My aim now? Approach everything at every chance I get. I want my approach to be so tight and clean that women will think this shit is totally normal for me. Once ive got that sorted, I will get down to business!

Switch

well done, new user here but thats good progress, before u go in approachin them all and get good at that, ensure you have ur words ready at backup for what comes after the approach, remember to be the most interesting person they'v spoke to all night and things will just be easy from there on out

Justin

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First things first, thanks nova and shark for your comments. Ive read them over and over trying to build confidence in myself and they have certainly helped.
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Glad to help buddy - if there's anything else you need just message me.

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Approach everything at every chance I get. I want my approach to be so tight and clean that women will think this shit is totally normal for me.
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After a little practise this shit WILL be tight it WILL be normal fo ryou and once this has occurred the girls will pick up on the atmosphere of confidence you have as well as your new relaxed state and your results will get better and better. You're doing what a lot of people talk about and never do...actually getting out there physically and interacting - this is the only way to get through so good one you :-)

Yea nice one switch, I am brand new to the game so i havent even started approaching yet, but your quite an inspiration mate...

Keep me informed of the progress, would love to hear more.

-Clipper

Thanks guys,

Im going to hit it hard all week and shall let you know what happens over the weekend!

Lots of good advice on here and so should have all you need - but if you need to just message me Brother. I was sitting here in my PJs woth a cuppa reading all the posts and you guys got me in the mood! Showered, dressed and off out to a Student night at a local club (yes I know I am far too old - shutup!) with Sky - you guys are awesome - thanks for the inspiration!