Halloween

So the trip begins in New York its Halloween night the day before a couple of my mates run the marathon so I get all dressed up. Wear a grey jump suite together with a clown mask and wig. My companion is dressed as Sir Lancelot. Away we go to the Halloween parade and onto a bar wear the baseball World Series is playing. Pretend to like baseball and support the Yankees. Get talking to some English girls who are dressed as undead cheerleaders. Then more girls appear and I open them alongside the English girls this time they are two lady gaga Americans. Anyway we get invited to a party on Stanton Island but decide to take up the English girls invite instead.

Neither of us ends going home with any of them but there is loads of keno.

Brazilian Girls at Celo

Its official the coolest girls in the world are Latin! No bullshit with them you know where you stand right from the start. Start talking with one by just asking what she is drinking (I know it's a bottle of Heineken). We end up sitting on a bench in the smoking area. I pretend I can smoke; light the fag but forget to blow on it and it just burns right out the cinders falling to the floor. She tells me not to smoke anymore and puts my hand on her thigh. Her friends are here as well now; she then tells me that one of them likes me. It turns out the girl in question can't speak a word of English. So I just point to the dance floor and shout dance! So we pull and she is really horny and very fit can't believe my luck. It gets’s to the end of the night and she jesters to me and says you bed me bed whilst putting her hands next to each other. Get into the taxi with her and just as we are about to go her friend says she is married with kids! So do the right thing and make a hasty exit as she argues in Portuguese with her friend.


Cuban sensation

So the best till last on the final night walk into a bar with my mate (formally Sir Lancelot) and it's completely dead. We talk to the waitress for a while then she offers us drinks on the house and then some more. We say we are going onto a club and she joins us. End up getting on really well with her turns out her has been all over the world and speaks like 5 languages. Go back to her place and make sexy time all night. Feel awful having to leave her the next day she later sends me a photo saying something to remember me by and tells me to come back soon.

Now I feel like an AFC again waiting for her to return my email.

sound ok . she was all over the world right ? ... hope u had a condom with u ...

Maverickup, it sounds like you had a good trip. I noticed you did a lot of ‘pretending’ - being into baseball and smoking. Why do you feel the need to do this? Don’t try and fit in to look part of a group. Most girls aren’t going to be bothered by these things. What will bother them however if they for one second think you are pretending, especially if it’s for the sake of ‘fitting in’. This is a sign of weakness and will turn a girl right off. Think of how cool you would seem to a girl, for example, if you were the rebel? The one who didn’t conform to the group etiquette. This would be more attractive, purely as it is you not caring what others think.

So, what next? Stop hanging around waiting for this email from a girl in another city. Wherever you live get out there and meet some more girls! You will soon forget about this one once you get into great interactions with others... and before you know it the sexy fun will be happening again.

Firstly thanks for your advice nova. I get what your saying here; although this pretending was only really used to open the set. Although I guess for the whole trip because I was in another country it felt like I could be whoever I wanted.

It seemed to work and I have never had so much success ever. I feel like by the end of the trip that I had a much better understanding of pick-up. My confidence was high and that really helped.

Getting back to the girl had a really good connection with her though and do want stay in touch. However I may have sent a clingy email, was wondering how to undue the weak clingy factor. What can I say to demonstrate value?

I am out this weekend in London so hopefully I can carry across some of the USA confidence.

To Pavel/Patrick yes I did use one, although I like to kid myself and think she doesn't just shag every tourist who comes into her bar.

Take the positives man. Don't put these adventures down to luck. You created your situations and capiltalised. You didn't bottle it or eject from the scenes. You closed the deal and will do again.

You have to harness the value you know you have. There's no real technique to creating and you don't want to have to invent value. Start to think about your strengths and how they are valuable to you. Be unashamed of who you are and what you want from life, in particular girls.