hey guys

erm basically, i was in a bar outside in this cool smoking area sitting down chatting to my mate ( not a wing man ) and i guy was just staring looking like he was suicidle, so my mate just being friendly, asks him, how you doing anyway cut a long story short, the guy starts going on about how he is seeing the best lookin girl in the place and he continued to stress how amazing she was and that there was no better girl in the bar, it comes to a point where i lose interest and he then decides to suggest he goes inside and brings her out.

so 2 mins later the guy comes out with this girl who is probabaly an 8 maybe a 9 they sit down and he introduces my friend an i to this girl. now shes got this huge grin on her face almost as if she knows hes going to boast about her to us i mean to some things up she absolutley loved herself and this guy she was with was just feeding this huge ego.

so we start talking and it somwhere along the lines ends up with this guy saying to my mate, ' so honestly mate, sit there and tell me she is not the best looking girl in here ' my mate jus replys with yeah she amazing, he than asks me the same question . i replied whilst looking both him and her in the eye with ' she is not the best looking girl in her' the best thing was seeing both of there jaws hit the floor, i wasnt aggressive or an arse about it just with a cheeky grin. he repeated the question whilst re assuring this girl that i couldnt possibly be serious as he was ranting on i dropped in with im sure she has a name as he kept reffering her to she , she absolutly loved this and i looked her straight in the eye again and repeated me answer, whilst trying to tell the girl i didnt know what i was talking about she demanded that he and her left and got a drink, she walked off and he follwed behind.

no within 2 - 3 mins she was back with him, and he asked me how i didnt think she was the best looking girl in there, she then came out with (whilst pointing at her body, you think this isnt the best thing in here, i then replied with, look to be honest with you, id say you were about a 7/10, she was mortified by this and asked me what she would have to do to be a 10, i simply with replied with a challenge, ' i dont think youd be able to do what is required' she repeated this question several times, before then saying to me out of spite, ' to be honest i bet youver never even had an 8 , i said to her look sweetie i dont need to prove nothing to you ive got high standards and ive had plenty of them standards, but i like your attitude so youve just moved up to a 7.2/10. a bit more chat went on she didnt take her eyes off of me and before she left, she said to my friend it was nice meeting you and i like you your nice, to me she said ' i dont like you,( in a jokey way) but what i do like is your not easy, your hard to impress ' they left

for what was left of the night i see her with this boy, who was trying it on and she kept knoking him back and she was looking at me quite alot.

just want to know guys where i went wrong what should i have changed, where should i have gone from the end point,

im so amatuer at this so any help you can give il appreciate
cheers

cenzy

Was she actually going out with this dude or were they just together for the evening?

If they weren't officially together I would say you should have esculated. Following Adam Lyons' formula, you had built some comfort with her and broken rapport by suggesting she was less than an 8. You then had a bit of cheeky banter, and I think by promoting her to 7.2 was very clever - it shows your not an ass and were just being cheeky, but your a challenge. So yeah from there, and again I say if she wasn't going out with this guy, you maybe could have gestured to her to come over by you and sit with you. From there you could have esculated through kinoing her. Always remember you want her to be putting more effort in than you, so you could have continued with the banter, pushing her away, and reeling her back in. You had the IOI's after your initial interaction so there should of been no reason why you couldn't have number closed her.

atb

Adam

she wasnt going out with him just with him for that night.
cheers man

Jaz started a smilar thread Dont take any shit.
For me that guy (boyfriend or not boyfriend) is such a pussy and she's up her own arse. Glad you were not like your mate and you put her in her rightful place down in the dumps. I wouldnt entertain her or bother with her or even wanting to close with that kind of attitude. You done well, nothing wrong.

She's probably used to people treating her in the way the dude was. But by not putting her above your own value you could have had HER putting effort it. Yes she was probably up her own arse as legend said but her attitude may have changed if you'd persisted.

Kind Regards

Adam

Adz is right - she is obviously used to being treated as the hottest girl and surrounds herself with people that keep telling her this..the fact you neg'ed her and politely and cheekily disagreed made you stand out from every other guy there that night and hence why you were getting the IOIs where as the guy she was 'with' was getting kncoked back. Definately would have escalated even with the other guy there - without trying too hard you would have been the AMOG and he would have disappeared into the background like a wall-flower. Don't feel bad that you didn't progress this - use it as a template for the next time it happens...you should be proud and have confidence from the fact you did stand out and got her attention. Game On brother.