Top night out with the south west boys on friday! Hopefully many more to come!!
Started the night feeling a bit closed up and anxious (Hustler much respect for the inspirational words on not feeling like you should HAVE to approach. It was something that I needed reminding of, and did me a lot of good!) Also was a bit anxious about meeting up with new peeps and sarging, as I should imagine most people are! But there was a nice relaxed vibe among us and it wasn't long before I was able to start enjoying the night.
After seeing you guys having a laugh with the flyer girl and warming up a little in pavlo's 8 set (mate you got the skills) I was ready to let loose on all babes in the vaccinity (well, a fair few of em anyway). A few rejections along the way, mostly by girls that I wasn't really that attracted to (always the case) but just wanted to keep the flow going.
Haha loved it in embargo's, that place is awesome!! Stu, haha that bird was so checking you out dude after telling her straight up that you thought she was stunning. Its funny cos she looked like she felt really awkward when you were saying it, but as soon as you'd left I could tell that she wanted more (women! so fucking complicated and confused, but I love em though!)
I had an awesome little set in there with an absolute turbo honey. Confidence was right up and managed to open by just staring at her scarf with a confused look on my face, like i wasn't sure what to make of it. I think i probably stood there for about 20 seconds without saying anything, but constantly seeming like I was just about to ask her a question. I can imagine that this would'nt work with a lot of girls, and probably won't make a habit of using it, but with the nice girls that have a sense of humor I think it works really well.
Steve aka Maverick, saw you getting involved with the tequila girls in embargo's! Sweet. Don't think i saw you without a girl for most of the night after we got into the club you big pimp you!
All in all fantastic first night out for me with other pua's. It felt good to be out with some like minded people. I've recently started to get a bit of shit from people at work cos I'm always sarging the clientell and I think some people (mainly females and man bitches) are starting to get pissed off with it. Fuck em is what i say! I'm not doing any one any harm, just enjoying myself and trying to meet beautiful girls.
The only thing I would probably change about the other night is that i would have spent more time getting to know you guys and maybe trying to open more sets together. Unfortunately I'd drunk a fair bit of liquer and was just thinking about getting laid, rather than having a good night out and enjoying the company, which i would like to apologise for. Next time i think i'll be sticking to the ginger beer.
Safe as a muthafucker.

It certainly looked like you lads were enjoying yourselves the other night! I seem to remember you got chatting to a seated girl in Java - any luck there in the end?

I had a wierd night - I just didn't feel like gaming at all, maybe because I was out with my flatmates and a load of uni people and wasn't in "game mode" but it was good to meet up with you and Stu, and it was fun to meet Pavel and Steve for the first time. We're getting quite a group going down here - we'll be showing the Manchester boys how it's done sooner or later

I apologise if I behaved like a prick at any point, I'd had far too much to drink (even for me) and literally can't remember about 80% of the night...maybe some sober sarging is in order next time :S. I also want to get some day game going at some point over the next couple of weeks - even from my limited experiences last week, it's a resource that's worth tapping, plus it'll be a good excuse to go shopping. I'll post something when I know more about my timetable.

Hey guys,

First up, no need to apologise guys, so what if you had alot to drink you looked like you were enjoying yourselves thats the main thing! Don't apologise for having a good time. Summer Junky, no problem for the advice mate, a couple of you looked abit uneasy and anxious at first feeling that you had to force yourselves to open. Feeling you have to approach girls creates unnecessary stress within you and the approach/opener itself will often come across feeling forced and disingenuous.

One thing I learnt from Kowalski and Jynx and I'm very thankful for was that the most important thing to do when you go out is to just have fun and enjoy yourself. Enjoy the company of your friends, soak up the surroundings, become absorbed in the moment. Approaching women is at best second to that. Approach women because you want to, not because you feel you have to or to prove yourself to others. Besides when you're out with no other concerns but to have fun and enjoy yourself it gives you value, look around a bar or night-club and you'll the see the people with the most value are often the ones just kicking-back, care-free enjoying themselves and having fun. Its amazing how many people don't look like they're enjoying themselves. Who are you going to be more drawn to talk to, the person not having fun or the person having a great time??

Summer Junky once you got the ball rolling you were unstoppable!! the women you were approaching were all stunning! you went for the women you liked the look of, no messing. Big respect for that! When we both set ourselves the challenge to approach only directly that was awesome! we should definately do that again sometime!

Mate it was awkward when I told that girl your talking about I thought she was stunning straight up. First off, as I'd gotten 95% of the way there her friend stood in front of my way to speak to her, without really thinking (as I'd locked on like a homing missile to its target) I barged her friend out of the way (not smooth at all, Maverick told me after that girl I'd barged out the way was pregnant!). So the look of fear in the girls eyes after I'd just barged her pregnant friend out of the way was understandable!! lol. I'd come this far, we'd made eye contact as I was walking over so it was unfortunate the obstacle got blown-away like that!

She was also in a mixed 10+ plus set and I could feel the eyes of her friends and orbitors burning holes through me as we were talking. I know alot of guys say engage her friends, I'm not interested in her friends as most of them were guys so for me not wasting my time doing that is only being true to myself. I could sense this was abit much for her being approached like this, she looked pretty shocked so I ejected. But yeah like you said she was checking me out after, funny how that happens?...can't say I blame her lol!

Pavel, cool guy, the guy didn't drink he wanted to do that so respect for that. Opened fearlessly a 8+ set straight up in illusions as soon as we walk in, had their attention for quite sometime, there was definate attraction from a couple I think if you wanted to you could have escalated. When you opened that girl on the street after only just seeing her leg protruding from a door way with 'Nice leg, but what about your personality!' that was funny shit man.

Maverickcup, wow! what a turnaround! I'm sure you'll admit you struggled at first and you were too inside your head but when I pointed out a set for you to open and gave you an opener you did it and it lead to a good interaction. After that you were on-fire opening sets all over the place!! you definately made some good connections with a couple of girls that night. Believe in yourself just a little bit more and you will go along way, of that I'm sure.

Blanca, glad to have hooked up with you again. You have a good energy when you're out and people can't help but be drawn to and feed off that! We didn't get to hang-out for long but we tore-shit up on the dancefloor in that unashamedly way we do!!...cyclones in the middle of 10+ sets was good fun!!

All in all a fun night, I hope everyone can take away some positives from that night. Only the second time guys in the south-west have hooked up but its definately the start of something good!

... anytime you want to stay in Bristol guys , me and 2 fat girls of mine welcome you !!!
just take sleeping bags and behave yourselve . dont make extra noise in toilet at 4 am

But well done it's about time! Now hopefully it'll grow like Manc, but you'll never be as good you southern fairies

Pfft. Manchester, liverpool, london - you can't compete with this shit! Wer'e taking pregnant women out to get results down here!

Here in Manchester we don't need to barge they just part like we're moses, so do their legs too

Fair point Tom, along with the bum cheeks of batty-boys in Canal Street eh.

We can't help it if even men find us attractive

Right first of all had a great night! I want to say thanks to Pavel/Patrick for letting us stay. I think we got a good crew down here because we all bring something different to the party.
Hustler thanks for the encouragement that really helped get me started! I think that was after you had assaulted the pregnant girl. I also remember you trying to juggle that shot glass "Doc Holliday style" and dropping it in front of that girl handing out shots.

That Java place was really good I should have number closed at least one of those girls. I always seem to get to the same stage; after opening and building a connection something just dies or halts and everything evaporates.

Blanca, Summer Junky, Pavel we need to get together again and just practise and learn from each others mistakes/successes. Hustler said he would not be able to join in down here much, so it's up to us boys to sort it out.