Don't ya hate them! Think you have played all the right cards with a girl, too find out she goes home early!!!

Things I think I did wrong:

1.) I danced with her a fair bit, and didn't initiate k-close, just didn't she the IOI's..

2.) I wasn't overly comfortable in the locations as my wingman was ill

3.) Didn't have as much wohoooo! and social proof as normal!

4.) I was fairly drunk, therefore cant dance or anything, GAME = 0 when drunk!

5.) Should have bounced her back to my place early in the night, just didnt have the balls!

6.) Never expect a girl to come back to your place. ie tidy, make bed and set it right (seems to be my achilles), as I never get a girl when I set it all up!

Moral of that story is, dont get drunk when out gaming, always presume its on and learn how to bounce early!

Question..

1.) how do you guys avoid dancing when in a club? I find it hard when a girl gets ur hand and drags you to the dance floor!

2.) How early in the night would you bounce a girl to your place?

Also you may have seen my other thread about the girl I am texting / saw tonight! I am going to leave her to text me now! I give it a few days and she will be back on the text.. Should I bust her balls about leaving early? Or just play not bothered? Or make her jealous and say what an awesome night I had with my mates?

Peace

NO.FX

I don't avoid dancing in the club and in fact I find it easier to dance when I'm drunk, I love it when a girl gets my hand and drags me to the dance floor.
I find being drunk not a problem but maybe it's because i'm more northern and grew up in a very small town with 2 breweries

Try to get her back to yours when it feels right or when you want to go, your just an awesome guy asking her.
It all depends on the situation there is no magic formula which is what a lot of men want from this a definite answer. I think this is due to the way the male mind works because it likes solving problems but humans are all different so there are women who will go straight away and some that won't leave till the end of the night.

Don't get in your head about it just ask when you think it's a good time it won't always work but you'll get better with the more times you do it. I tend to ask near the end of the night but that's because I've gone out to have fun and I don't want to go in straight away.

With texting I tend to make it something random but memorable about the night, for example if i've given her a stupid name i'll call her it or mention my army of genetically engineered monkeys if I've talked about that. That's just me I talk about random stuff.