Dear Guys

Im Trojan_85 Ive know the game since i was 17 but had little success due to lack of self believe and taking enough risks with targets. However Im back in the game to get what I deserve. This is my problem I go to my local gym and I meet a nice Polish women, divorced has 10 year old kid, and I used my rapport skills well and get her connected. The second time meet in the steam room had a long conversation about her job, kid and relationship. I notice she laughs very nervously all the time. She was asking me questions and said the next time we meet in the steam room that she wants to talk about me. She's older which makes me thing I could be a play toy which is great or she wants to see if I can be her next guy in her ldating life!!!!!

Now guys its all good so far but Im unsure If I should build more comfort of go for the Kino esculation and number e-mail and number close!!!!!!!! Your views greatly needed. Cheers

Hey mate, welcome to the forum. I have similar experience with a MILF from my gym too altho shes probably only 7 years older than me but she has a body of a 17 year old haha.

This is my experience: I started with building a rapport/attraction. I was talking to her on/off for at least 1 month before it starting getting deeper and she started being open with me more about herself. Building the attraction is important imho. Then I move on to texting her reqularly and then inviting her to a club (salsa) with my friends. Then one saturday evening she texted me asking to take her out to a club. I duly obliged and the rest was history... ;-)

Depending on what you want but from the very beginning I made a point that Im happy being single and wont start a relationship with anyone so she knows that im not after a relationship. If shes comfortable with that, she will carry on talking to you and you can take it from there...!

HTH. Much Success!