Hi forum
Last weekend I went out and got chatting to a group of girls. I only one of these girls properly attractive. Being sat at a table by the dancefloor, I thought that she'd be easy to talk to as she wasn't dancing and I could actually hear what she was saying. I kinda worked my way into the group by talking to one girl and involving the friend next to her, then the friend next to her. I managed to work my way to the 'properly attractive' girl so I was standing next to her. This was when I noticed the cast on her leg

We had a good chat about how she did it (I'm sure I wasn't the first person to ask but it was screaming out to be spoken about!) and I cracked a few jokes about her having to modify her dance technique and showed her how to dance standing on one leg (with one hand behind her on the back of her chair - smooooth haha). She laughed and started dancing on the chair. Great! I went for a pit-stop at the gents.

When I came back she was down on the dancefloor with a set of crutches... Now, I've been questioning my morals but she seemed like a really cool person so I saw no reason to discriminate and walked over to her on the dancefloor. In my opinion, this is where it all went a bit downhill. Obviously I couldn't get close to her as she was packin' crutches so we ended up with me and a few of her friends in a circle dancing like penises.

The last song finished and everyone grabbed their coats etc. and I went up to her friends and said "It was good to meet you all. See you around etc.". The friend that was standing next to her interrupted and said "if you're gonna ask her, you better ask her yourself". I assume she thought I was going to find one of my mates to come and get the properly hot girl's number...Maybe?

'Properly hot' overheard this so before the situation got too awkward, I chipped in with "So your friend thinks I should get your number". I'm thinking this might not have been the best think to say but she said "You can have my number". She said it in a 'that's ok, i dont mind' tone of voice rather than an 'im so glad you asked me' tone. I gave her my phone and she put in her first name and a mobile number.

The thing is, she followed that by saying "I THINK that's my number". I didn't offer to ring it and check. I think I'm above that. I said "aw, ok...Well have a good night" and she started talking to her friends. That was it. No body contact. No kiss goodnight. Nout!

I sent her a text like 15 mins later. No reply. I guess that wasn't the right number hehe.

So, I know I did bad, but I could really do with some pointers. Cheers

Cheers.
I thought it wasn't her real number so it was a good way to save embarrassment. Good point tho. I read somewhere that I should put a memorable nickname in like Matt the choreographer - or something like that related to the conversation.

This is true. I think it would probably have been quite funny if she'd given me the wrong number and I just played it dumb and got her to make up a second number...nope that one doesn't work either

Hey guys! I don't actually have a cell phone, I don't like them very much. Maybe that means I need to get one if I'm planning to date or get a girl but I'm considering my options at this point having mostly failed with my current system of being NICE. I'm slightly curious why you'd even bother, does getting cell #'s actually lead anywhere? It would seem to me she'd have tons of guys texting her already so why become one of them?

Your advice? Is a cell phone that important? I guess you'd come off as creepy if you didn't have one? Humm.... this is why I'm considering drastic measures like ShocK & Awe 2. It would seem to be right up my ally since I've nothing to loose.

anon2012 man thats the funniest question i ever heard lol i am still laughing.....

Damn straight!