Hi everyone

Thanks for the replies!

I’m not going to over-analyse the situation and get all butt hurt however I’m keen to learn and improve.

I’ve slept with a lot of women in the past however the vast, vast majority of those have been as a result of drunken one night stands. Therefore I’m a complete amateur when it comes to strategic thinking and this is something I’m working to change.

daleinthedark and kowalski - you’re absolutely spot on. Thanks!

kowalski - I met her on Saturday evening, stayed the Saturday night. On Sunday morning we went back into town for some food and drinks, came back to hers and watched a couple of movies. We were both sitting under the duvet on the sofa, she was lying in my arms (standard ‘cosy sunday’ behaviour). I leaned in for a kiss once or twice bit it was just on the lips, and I said ‘give me a kiss’ a bit later, and got the same.

I left that evening.

I'm gonna do what you suggest and ask to meet up some time. If nothing happens, move on!