I'm not sure. It's very hard to get feedback on these things. I've gone out with wings but they generally don't have anything specific to say about what I'm doing "Wrong", so it can't be something really bad. Perhaps it just comes across as weak game overall, and I would have to improve a lot of different things by a small amount in order to have an overall tighter game.

But in general, what makes me interesting is that I'm educated with a high level degree, I run a business, and I have hobbies like chess, riding motorcycles, and judo. I'm also in spectacular shape, I get compliments from men and women when I'm out -- and I'm starting a class on bodybuilding at my gym.

I could talk about these things.. should I work them into the conversation somehow?