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Originally Posted by kowalski
All the language you are using suggests that you haven't done anything yet - "I remember...", "I would have...", "...another problem was...", "I would just... without having..." and most telling "I want to start...".
I think that you need to go out and talk to some girls and then come back and tell us about that. You don't need a plan or things to work on. Just go out and talk to some girls.
Peace,
kowalski
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Hah, that's a good NLP analysis
I agree with you, and you are correct in principle. However, I forgot to mention, that I have been going out again regularly. Currently I've been going out at least once a week for the last 3 weeks. What I'm finding is that I have the exact same problems that I had 5 years ago, i.e. the interactions are failing for the same reasons.
5 years ago, I used to go out and "just do it" as you say, but that did not work. That's why I want to do a bit more work "out-of-field" and come in prepared -- otherwise the old quote about "doing something over & over and expecting a different outcome" applies.