No, Neil Strauss and RSD talk a lot of shit.

You need to ask your self what interests her?

I've met too many girls who are into musical theatre and contemporary dance. And these are the girls I found hottest. So now, I'm going to start watching musical theatre films and learn about that sort of dancing. To build a better bond. Which is cool because I studied and still do music. And dancing is fun.

The only crap Neil Strauss offers is learn about magical spirits, and star signs. Which means learning about bullshit. Also, I have never met a sane minded person who believes in that crap.

The best option is to find out what interests you, and become passionate about it. And go around looking for a girl who shares the same interest.

Or do what I'm doing and just slightly adjust your self.

Girls don't lose interest in you, just what your talking about.