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Originally Posted by J.Daniels
It's bad that you're still having to look up PU material just to get an opener.
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I don't understand what is so bad about a
PUA opener.
I don't think I will ever change.
Now that Christmas is over it's actually funny because:
A few years back I was out with a wing, when he opened a two set with "hi, can I get your advice? what do you think I should get my sister for Christmas?"
I thought to myself, wow that is so natural, smooth, with no pressure and non-intrusive.
I turned to him afterwards and said "wow, where did you get that opener from"
He calmly reply "I just came up with it, just then."
jumping with amazement I response "wow, that's so cool. And have you got a sister?"
He just looked at me with a smirk "No"
The truth is I do have sisters and every year between November and December; out comes that very opener.
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Originally Posted by J.Daniels
How about "Hello. How are you?" or "Hi. What's your name?"
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The reason I don't like saying that is because everyone says that. If you think about what life is like for a woman; when about two to three times a day, every day, a strange man walks up to her and asks the same question over and over again. How bored would you be? Every time you walk into a night club you are bombarded with the same question over and over. I know it would frustrate me.
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Originally Posted by J.Daniels
An opener is about as important as if you're wearing blue or red. (Unless you're in certain parts of California, then you can completely forget your opener, you fucking crip/blood)
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It's called first impression. I think it's important to be relaxed and interesting.
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Originally Posted by J.Daniels
Hate this "can't make an approach until I get a rejection proof opener" shit.
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there's no such thing. Just smile and move on.