haha thanks for the replies guys and how to become an alpha male was pretty good... it was a very very easy read. broke things right down. i would say its more of a beginners book compared to some stuff ive started reading but i recommend it. has alot of very good information on body language and ive tried a few things out of it that all seem cool. i found a free ebook version but think you can get a physical copy.

and yeah i would start a group but think I'm rather lonesome in 'sunny' boro

.db x.