There is a lot of truth to what you are saying. I have a lot of problems with myself at the moment. I am frustrated, both sexually and psychologically. She is the first person that showed me this kind of interest. However I have to disagree with the statement that I am needy and boring (not that I am offended by the fact that you pointed it out). I too have a life and a lot of activities. When she sets up a meeting I plan my things so I can meet her. I put effort into this. From my point of view it is extremely frustrating. More and more it just seems that she is playing with me and trying to find out if I will do whatever she wants. It might not be true yet this is how I feel. I need help, both with this case and my inner game.