Welcome, I'm in a relationship too and most of us have at some stage so don't worry about it.

You might want to read these posts or contribute to them

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/pua-genera...sculinity.html

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/seduction-...tionships.html

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/pua-genera...refriends.html